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Anger Is Equals To Danger!

Anger = Danger

By Iloabuchi Benedict NnakeePublished 2 years ago 5 min read
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Extreme anger is a very dangerous problem which can cause many unimaginable damages. In a situation when one gets to a very high level of anger, the person finds it difficult to control the anger. Some situations can trigger this extreme anger, e.g; emotional issues, mental health disorder, etc.

*Excessive Anger: A Review

As we all know; there are numerous risks associated with great anger, it is first necessary to comprehend strong anger. In many cases, this type of rage emerges after a period of time has passed and many concerns have remained unresolved.

There is nearly always an underlying cause why some people do not suddenly become enraged for no apparent cause. There is also a spark that sets off that extreme anger behavior.

*Unresolved Problems

The most common reason of severe anger is unresolved conflicts. This is due to the fact that there are several levels of fury. Anger should be addressed early on, but if this does not happen, issues can arise. It is possible for the person to become aggressive over the limit if the situation is not managed on time.

To avoid the problem that comes with intense anger, you should deal with problems as they arise. If you have any unsolved difficulties, the best decision for you is to address them quickly and constructively. Issues that aren't resolved from beginning or when needed might linger for years. Early childhood issues is one of the issues that doesn't quickly fade away .

You will notice that they are becoming part of you as you get older. Most times, the cause of intense anger is as a result of childhood trauma that was not addressed or dealt with for the individual to recover and move forward. You'll be better off if you deal with your old issues sooner rather than later. It's advisable for you to start working through things on your own, with family and friends, or with a therapist may be necessary at times. You shouldn't be ashamed of sitting with a therapist; so many lives have been saved through this.

WHAT ARE THE CONSEQUENCES OF EXCESSIVE ANGER?

Examining and comprehending the precise dangers involved with intense rage will assist you in taking preventative measures.

*Interpersonal Relationships Under Stress

Extreme anger has the potential to damage our relationships with others.

Dealing with other people is a necessary part of living in this world and functioning in society. It is common for everyone to experience bad days, but if you're constantly dealing with anger, it will manifest itself in your relationships. When your interpersonal relationships are stretched as a result of your anger, you may or may not be able to heal the damage later.

When people are coping with anger, they may believe they can control it, but the anger manifests itself in a variety of ways. It's possible that you're unknowingly passive hostile with your partner. A client or business partner may feel as if you are ignoring them and being rude to them. People who used to be your pals may abandon you. Without solid interpersonal ties, life can be terribly lonely. This is why severe rage must be dealt with immediately before it spirals out of hand.

*Problems with Physical Health

You may not realize it, but intense anger is capable of leading to health problems in the future. Migraines, headaches, chest pain and other consequences are among the health problems that you wouldn't want to deal with. Physical health problems is possible to spread to other parts of your life, increase unwanted medical bills and create a slew of other avoidable troubles.

NOTE: It's not worth jeopardizing your physical health, no matter what your narrative is or what you're going through.

*Problems with Mental Health

Excessive rage puts you at danger and its not just physical danger but also mental health problems. Your brain's chemistry and functionality is affected negatively when you are continuously dealing with anger. Low self-esteem, depression, drug/alcohol misuse and an increased chance of abusing others have all been connected to chronic, severe rage.

One big fact remains that your anger still weighs heavily on your mind even if you think you've got your it under control by hiding the more outward signs. If your intense anger is not treated and resolved, the aforementioned mental health concerns have indications and symptoms that will eventually appear in the outside world.

*Making a Mistake That You Will Regret

Only a split second of tremendous rage and loss of control is enough to do something you later regret and when you realize your mistake, it will be too late to undo. This could be; yelling at a high-ranking company executive, physically assaulting someone or engaging in other self-destructive behavior.

The dangerous endpoint of actions is that they can't be undone after they've been taken. Depending on the circumstances, you can apologize and try to set things right; but, this does not absolve you of your acts or the consequences that comes with them.

Many people's families, jobs, chances, and even lives have been destroyed as a result of something they did out of rage. This is related to self-control and how it deteriorates when someone is carrying about a lot of anger. Many individuals do not like to admit or cope with this, yet it is a harsh reality of life. Regardless of our mental state or anything else we may be dealing with, we are all responsible for our actions.

*How To Stay Away From The Dangers Of Excessive Anger

This will be of help if you want to stay away from the hazards of anger; Finally, the optimum time to address it is before it reaches critical proportions. You may need to walk away from a situation or a person to avoid manifestation of extreme anger. If you can't walk away because of the situation, counting to ten in your brain or breathing in and out may be a better option for you.

Many people have ruined their families, careers, opportunities, and even lives because of something which they did in a fit of anger. This goes back to self-control and how this manner of control goes away when someone is carrying around extreme anger. This isn't something which many people like to acknowledge or deal with, but it's a tough reality of life. We are each accountable for our actions, regardless of our emotional state or whatever else we may be dealing with.

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