Accept your imperfections and find the right path for you

The world is full of people who seek perfection, but there are no real perfect people, more or less there will be shortcomings.

Many times, do your best to do the best, but to "perfect" close.

Although there is still a gap, again and again, the effort can close the gap.

Perhaps the current self is still not perfect, but the effort is not without reward, persistent efforts, and eventually achieving a better self.

1, except they're own ordinary, let yourself breathe a sigh of relief

People live life, who do not want to be the best.

However, this road is not easy to walk. Sometimes, even if you pay for everything, you may not get what you want.

When I was studying, there was a boy in my class who studied very hard, not only listened carefully in class but also spent two more hours after class doing extra exercises, always ranked first in the grade throne, which I never thought later was just transferred to the interlocutor beyond.

At first, he thought he wasn't working hard enough, so he spent more time studying, but by the next exam, he still hadn't regained the top spot, and finally, with one blow after another, his grades fell to the ground.

Every time he took an exam, he wanted to do better but was so afraid of facing failure again that he could no longer approach the exam with a normal heart and developed the idea of avoiding it.

Fortunately, the class teacher later found out his problem and gave him a series of psychological guidance, so that he could find his original heart and treat winning and losing correctly, otherwise, it is hard to imagine what would happen to him now.

So, instead of losing your way in the pursuit of perfection and falling into self-doubt, let yourself return to your heart, accept your mediocrity, and face the gains and losses of life openly.

Many times, pushing yourself too hard will end up hurting you.

Know how to accept your own ordinary, and let yourself breathe a sigh of relief, to face the unknown in a better state.

2、Wake up your decadent self and find the right path for you

There is no shortage of things in life that are not what you want, if everything is calculated, it is undoubtedly tossing yourself.

There is time to toss, rather than spend more time thinking about the next road and how to go.

After all, regrets are inevitable, failure is temporary, and there is still a long way to go in the future.

Only let yourself out of the decadence, to find the right road for you in the unknown.

As the saying goes, failure is the mother of success, and without having failed, how can you find out what problems you have and make yourself better?

Sometimes, what you fear is not necessarily a failure, just the inability to accept your imperfection.

Instead of letting yourself live in the illusion of "perfection", it is better to accept your imperfections, find what can be corrected, make timely adjustments, and move forward to a "better" you.

If life is a game, we are very weak at the beginning, but some people try hard to upgrade themselves to slowly pull away from each other and achieve a very good self so that there is time to get stuck in regret and failure, but better to put more effort to improve themselves.

Only let yourself become better, to have the ability to live better.

Continue to decadence, only to let themselves live in the valley; bravely stand up, to find a new way out; brave to try, to find the real road for themselves.

3, learn to change themselves and improve their deficiencies

"Most people want to change the world, but no one wants to change themselves."

Thinking that the current self has enough ability to change the world, but did not find that the real self has many problems.

Very often, the problems that exist in yourself are not seen, but you habitually choose to ignore them until you can't ignore them and then you choose to face the problem, but by then the problem has become very serious and can no longer be corrected with a little effort.

So, don't let yourself wait passively for problems to appear, but learn to take the initiative to change yourself and improve your deficiencies.

Although the process of change is difficult, but persistent efforts will certainly achieve a better self.

After a moment of suffering, everything will slowly become better.

Today's efforts will cast a better self.