A person's growth is to plow deep into themselves in silence

No matter how lively the world is, life will always occupy only a small part of the world.

The world beyond the hustle and bustle is boundless, there is my place, a quiet place.

The quiet outside of the hustle and bustle is the solitude of a person, no need to disguise yourself, you can go do what you want to do, in the silence of deep plowing.

Compared with the hustle and bustle of the outside world, learn to enjoy the solitude of a person, in order not to be disturbed by the outside world, the achievement of a better self.

1、Being lively does not relieve loneliness

I heard a story.

To alleviate loneliness, someone went into the hustle and bustle when the police were chasing the thief, disguising as a thief for a while and disguising as a policeman for a while, but what remained after the hustle and bustle was the endless emptiness.

There is no shortage of similar people in life, who think that they will not feel lonely if they go after the hustle and bustle more, but they do not think that blindly pursuing the hustle and bustle will only make them feel more and more empty.

Instead of spending time on the hustle and bustle, it is better to spend more time deep plowing yourself.

If life is too idle, then don't think about stealing.

Alone with the nonsense, mainly caused by a person with nothing to do, rather than spend the time alone on learning, every day is busy with learning, there will not be so much time nonsense.

Life is your own, how to live is your own choice, to relieve loneliness and force yourself to get together with people who do not get along, is undoubtedly a waste of their own time "torture" themselves.

Even if it can be temporarily relieved, so what, no one can always be with anyone, there will always be a time to rely on others, it is better to rely on yourself.

Therefore, being lively can not relieve loneliness, but will intensify the sense of emptiness inside.

2、The outside world's voice is just a reference

We all know that outside voices are just references, but it is still hard to avoid listening to others' words in our hearts.

Whether good or bad, as long as you listen to it, it will have an impact on you.

Affect the mood is the second, the most fear is to affect the future.

When I was young, some people like to give others nicknames, either by the name of the harmonic start or according to the appearance of others to start.

A girl is not fat, medium size, but some people like to call her fat sister, at first only a few people in the class call her, and then almost all people know "fat sister" as her pronoun.

I was thinking all day long about getting a high score on the test and getting a reward from my parents, ignoring what was happening in class, and when I saw her again, she was already anorexic and had become as thin as a bone.

It was then that I discovered that the girl who smiled and said it was okay, actually listened to what others said, only to hold her breath and want to be thin to refute what the other side had said, but did not want to "revenge" on others, they tossed themselves out.

In some words, the speaker has no intention, the listener has a heart, too serious, but easy to hurt themselves.

Like when the star, does a good job there are black fans, on the network to slander, if everything is heard in the heart, then the strong heart will be hurt, rather than learn to shield the outside world's voice, do not listen to those not worth listening to words.

So that the outside world can only refer to the voice, and can not take it seriously, otherwise, the harm will only be their own.

3, in the silence of deep plowing themselves

In the "Rain Village Notes" mentioned: "Life is constant, today's efforts, may not return you next to the time you specify, but will certainly fall on you in the future."

Today's efforts to live up to tomorrow's self.

When young love to get together the hilarious, older, in turn, will not be too important, then thought that you can relieve loneliness while accumulating contacts, but did not think there is no real material to mix their mix is also very difficult to mix out of the personal kind, rather than spend time in deep plowing themselves.

Knowing how to cultivate yourself in silence, to make your life road more and more smooth.

Although the process of deep plowing themselves is difficult, as long as they survive, everything will slowly become better.

All the precipitation accumulated over time is the cornerstone of the road to success.

Compared to the feeling of emptiness brought by loneliness, a life without the ability to fight back is more painful. Instead of letting yourself get lost in the false hustle and bustle, you should force yourself to discipline yourself a little, resist the loneliness and plow yourself deeper, and work hard for your future.