A man with a Goal vs A man without a Goal

A man with a Goal vs A man without a Goal

Goal is the objective of a person's ambition or effort; an aim or desired result.

A goal is something that cannot be achieved easily and to get it, one needs to put some enormous effort and patience with or without sacrificing something.

This makes man to desire and achieve with continuous process.

Let's take an example, A wants to become a Police officer, and B hasn't decided what to do. Both A and B daily go to the Ground to do exercise and run.

A will prepare and come what is needed to work out because he needs to pass in physics examination. So he tries to focus and prepare for the physical test based on the requirements of that test. He will make some sort of list and prepare for it. Because he knows what he wants to do and it's easy to set goals and work for it.

B had a habit of walking and doing some other stuff on the ground. He doesn't plan for anything so he went as it. He is not intended to do any serious kind of exercise or had any intention to help anybody.

What do you think who is serious about the future? Of course A only, because it is good being like B for a few days and not for entire life. Need to work hard and get some success like A does. We cannot predict life goes like this or it will be smooth or without struggle, anything will happen unexpectedly or even unnoticed. So just be prepared for what you want to be.

Set a goal and make it in your own way.

After setting a goal or goals

You might think What after setting a goal? and how to follow with the same rhythm and how to be consistent in that.

Yeah, it is complicated to be consistent and follow some strict guidelines for themselves. There are some psychological reasons and proven experiments that anything can be achieved if we put interest and effort with regular practice. 21 continuous days can help anybody to stay in control and do what they desired to.

Initially, A was not so good at practice and he was irregular to the ground, most of the time he joined a funny discussion group of 10 to 15 in the ground. Daily they meet regularly at the same time, there will be at least four members in that group & they chat each other.

So A is becoming regular to the ground he got some friends there because at least four members will meet out of 15. It was unnoticed he became regular to the ground.

Then one fine morning then he get bored of being with the same things again and again. He sat nearby a tree and imperatively started to review around the ground.

He saw, a few children playing with a ball, a few cycling, a team of volleyball, and other games sportsmen, walking and jogging persons, many senior citizens, and a man with a dog.

Then he had a question in his own mind that, why all these people came to the ground and what they do and how they become so enthusiastic even after a few months.

Then he approached a man with a dog, asked the same. The man smiled and asked him to just look around and tell me what you see. A told almost told everything that he sees.

Alright, you missed one, that's fine, he said.

Those Children don't know what they are playing, but they are playing.

How do they think of playing?

- maybe their parent's instructions with some kind of gestures

- maybe they learned that by see

Those few are trying to cycle and few are cycling well like they have experience in that.

How did they learn cycling?

- they may be learned it by practice

- or someone guided them

That volleyball team is playing with few members and there are many people around it.

How they are hitting that ball perfectly?

- maybe they learned it by seeing others

- or by practicing

- or by listening to instructions that were given while playing

Likewise, all other games are in their own way.

There are people walking and running because they might have heard of nearby person daily visits to the ground or they came by others suggestions or some forms of notice.

Senior citizens, come to the ground to maintain good health, and they might practice or start visits when there were young.

Like these everyone, reads from somewhere or gets suggested by someone or gets taught by someone or learned from someone or from seeing a thing and following from someone or others to make practice, patience, and perseverance. Achieve by learning, it's not from one, it's from many. It's not within a day, It might take many years also. [Said by a man with dog]

Did you find out that missing thing?

That's actually a man with a dog, he added.

In the beginning, I tied this dog with a belt to visit this ground. After a few months, now I don't tie this dog, it goes to the ground even I miss it sometimes. It is why because it has practice and experience to visit here and it found its form of happiness here and even it might feel good here.

So now thought yourself how you wanna be in the future. Options are in your hand, you have to choose and keep going.