Third party in marriage

Most people cheat is to meet their desires, to a third party, talk about how much love them. The passion rebuts des, eventually returns to the family.

But in this world, not everything can be as it should be. If you have an affair, there is a crack in your marriage, and it is impossible to fix it again. Especially if you meet a third party who is not willing to let go, it is almost impossible to erase the damage caused by the affair.

Not all third parties will be spontaneous to let go of the cheater after he or she has proposed to break up. The company's main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.

So, the third party in the marriage, knowing that there is no result, why still entangled in it?

Greedy for material enjoyment, the cost of breaking up is too high

Since they chose to destroy other people's families, then in their case, there has long been no principle bottom line. Self-respect in front of interests has long been worthless.

These people will choose to destroy other people's families, not because they have met true love, but because to value the interests of each other.

True love for a person is to become whole, definitely not willing to see the other side of the pain-tangled look. So, do not want to let go just because the other party brings too superior material conditions, the cost of breaking up is too high, so, compared to dignity and material, they are more willing to abandon dignity.

In their hearts, they feel that since the other party's family can be destroyed by themselves, then they have a great chance to take over the nest, so they are willing to put down their dignity to fight for a turn.

People who want to save their unhappy marriage

This kind of third party always appears as a gentle and understanding image to attract the unhappy people in the marriage to cheating. The cheater also enjoys this feeling of being cared for, so he or she always shows his or her unhappiness and shows his or her determination to continue to be with the third party, and both of them express their desire to see each other.

In the process of getting along, the cheater always consciously or unconsciously takes the position of the weaker person to beg for the love of the third party. The third person is convinced that he or she is the best for the other person, so he or she holds a holier-than-thou mentality and wants to save the person who thinks he or she is unhappy in the marriage.

Even if the other party has clearly expressed the will to break up and return to the family, this type of third party will only feel that the other party is coerced, stalking, and trying to save the other party.

What you can't get is the best

The more good things others have, the more they covet and the more they want to destroy. The psychology of this type of the third party is often distorted, they desire to be loved and attention, so they can not see others happy.

So, even if they know that the other party does not love them that much and is with them just for the momentary thrill, they are not willing to admit it, much less let go.

In the face of the other family's difficulties, they will choose to throw their weight around, forcing each other to divorce, forcing each other to stay with themselves. They will not consider whether the forced love is happy, only care about their own can get. The one you can't get is also to be destroyed. It is impossible to reason directly with this kind of the third party.

No matter what kind of mentality the third party has to stalk, the damage brought to the original family is unpredictable. Therefore, please cherish your own family, and do not do things that cross the line, which will only harm others and harm themselves.

The fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of the most popular and popular items. The people who will betray their own families will one day betray you as well.