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The Waiting Game

The Power of Patience

By Eze Kelvin Ogarabe Published 28 days ago 4 min read
The Waiting Game
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Among busy markets and historic temples in the center of Kyoto resided a modest potter by the name of Hiroshi. In his studio, which was a charming, old structure covered in wisteria and ivy, time appeared to move more slowly. Hiroshi was renowned for his extraordinary artistry, producing ceramics that were both resilient and delicate. But what really distinguished him was his unrelenting patience, a quality that he had developed over a long period of time.

Hiroshi started his pottery career while he was young. He trained under famous potter Master Yamato, who felt that a profound sense of patience was the foundation of true craftsmanship. Master Yamato used to remark, "Rushing leads to ruin." "In patience, we find perfection."

Young Hiroshi, eager to show himself, found this instruction difficult. His hands were tingling to work with the clay and see the results right away. He was excited to create. He was frustrated, too, since every time he rushed, the clay would crumble or fracture. Gentle reminders to slow down, feel the clay, and comprehend its requirements would come from Master Yamato, who had a serene manner and insightful eyes.

As the years went by, Hiroshi's annoyance gradually gave way to a calm acceptance. He started to enjoy the cadence of his labor: the way the clay responded to his movements, the sound of the wheel working, and the kiln's heat. He discovered that while he was the potter, he was only a guide and that every piece had its own voyage. Pottery was not just about making things; it was also about feeling, hearing, and most of all, waiting.

A prosperous businessman called Takashi paid a visit to Hiroshi's studio one spring. Takashi was notorious for his irritability and short fuse, but he was interested in a specially created tea set for an impending tea ceremony and had heard of Hiroshi's superb pottery. Takashi stated emphatically, "I need it in two weeks," leaving no opportunity for discussion.

With composure, Hiroshi responded, "A piece worthy of a tea ceremony requires more time," acknowledging the significance of the request as well as the need for time. You can't rush it. Give me a month, please."

Anger heated Takashi's face. "A month? In two weeks, at most, I must have it. I'll find someone who can do it if you can't."

Hiroshi gave a polite bow. "I get it, but you can't sacrifice quality. Patience is necessary if you really want a work that captures the essence of the tea ritual."

Though clearly annoyed, Takashi reluctantly accepted the month-long deadline. Hiroshi started his work with the same level of attention to detail he applied to each piece. He took the best clay, worked it very carefully, and started sculpting it on the wheel. He spent hours every day honing the form, giving the clay time to relax in between applications.

Takashi was getting frustrated as the days stretched into weeks. His agitation was evident as he would frequently visit the studio. He would inquire, his voice piercing with impatience, "Is it ready yet?"

All Hiroshi would say would be a simple smile and "Not yet. Please have faith in the procedure.

One evening, Takashi barged into the studio with an angry mask on his face as Hiroshi was putting the finishing touches on the tea set. "I just cannot wait any longer!" he exclaimed. "I demand to see it now!"

Unfazed by the shouting, Hiroshi carefully pulled out the tea set. Each work was gorgeous and a monument to Hiroshi's patience and expertise. The elaborate motifs adorning the tiny cups and teapot made the glaze sparkle like the surface of a peaceful pond.

Even in his rage, Takashi was speechless at the beauty in front of him. With shaky fingers, he stretched out and gingerly took up a cup. It was flawless in terms of balance, weight, and texture. He realized then how much the time Hiroshi had taken mattered.

Observing the shift in Takashi's attitude, Hiroshi spoke quietly. The virtue of patience is sometimes disregarded in our fast-paced society. But true beauty and perfection can only be found via patience. The actual tea ceremony is a practice in patience and awareness. That spirit is embodied in this set."

Feeling humbled by the encounter, Takashi nodded slowly. As you say, Hiroshi. I now see that anything genuinely lovely might have been spoiled by my impatience. I appreciate your artistic and wise insights."

Takashi's guests were astounded by the fine tea set, and the tea ceremony proved to be a great success. As word of Hiroshi's extraordinary skill and his patience lesson spread around Kyoto, his studio became a hub for learning life's more profound lessons as well as for buying ceramics.

Hiroshi kept working, each item demonstrating his mastery of patience and commitment to his trade. Many others were impressed by his narrative, which demonstrated that true mastery in any profession requires not only skill but also the capacity for understanding, patience, and letting things happen naturally.

Years later, as an elderly man, Hiroshi would frequently sit by his studio window and watch the changing of the seasons, happy in the knowledge that he had led a patient and meaningful life. And in those silent moments, when he felt the weight of an exquisitely made cup in his hands, he realized that he had discovered not just tranquility but also perfection via patience.

He came to see that practicing patience required more than just waiting; it also required living in the present and enjoying the trip just as much as the final goal. And he had discovered a timeless truth in this, one as timeless as the ceramics he had made with such care.

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