So as not to suffer disappointment again

We are all born with instinct, that instinct that sends within you many positive feelings and attitudes such as love, peace, the desire to embrace life, optimism, honesty, and finally confidence.

In childhood, we find ourselves dealing with the same age group that we fall under, everyone is peaceful and cheerful, does not suffer from a crisis of confidence or fears about the distant future, everyone maintains friendliness and seeks to spread happiness.

Therefore, after we enter the space of maturity and youth, we feel that the world of children is more confident, safe and peaceful, because you will not need to plan or think about what you will say if you are dealing with a small child, you will not think if he harbors evil for you or wants to distract you and then kill you, and you will not You doubt if his smile for you is real or just hypocrisy

You must stop trusting blindly.

But as you go on your journey in this life, you will experience situations that you did not expect that you would go through, the betrayal of a relative or the lie of a friend, those blows that hurt you not because of their intensity, but because of the presence of the element of surprise because you did not expect to receive a slap from the hand that has always been tender on you.

Perhaps they are hypocritical to you because of an interest that your existence may hinder or because you stand in the way of their success, as some of those around you do not desire your success and happiness as it seems to you.

On the other hand..

While we are preparing for them a hidden supplication that carries with it our love and our desire to see them rejoicing and feeling the utmost satisfaction with their lives, they plot for us and each of them weaves a trap net that you will inevitably fall into if your path in life interferes with them.

This philosophy is not negative as it seems to some, but it is frighteningly realistic. You will realize these concepts deeply if you want to achieve for yourself something that much has not been achieved, or to go on the right path, or to change for the better.

You will find many who hate you and wish you a great defeat that breaks your bones so that you do not stand again in their face, and perhaps the picture is not that bad, you may find those who are in agreement with you, but they are very few, my friend, life may ravage them and abandon you and themselves against their will.

What then ?

Certainly, you will not remain steadfast for long in the face of this cruel war, but you must use yourself to become stronger in the face of the world and people, to believe well that you do not need a rib or a support to continue in the challenges of life and that you are strong by yourself, and that others are not always a source of strength but often Be the first reason for the heavy defeat.

Learn to love your presence in this world, and to seek to understand the meaning of it, and to support yourself by yourself. Do not ask for help as long as you are able to stand. You may suffer a lot, but believe me, you will become the happiest person when you win alone. And be careful not to lose the rare gems of people, those who love for you what they love for themselves and influence others over themselves, you will not find them in this time again if you lose them.

I am not trying to spread negativity!

You may feel that it is painful and cruel to live in this life completely alone and without finding a shoulder to lay your sorrows and worries on. You will find this bond one day, but do not live while you are always looking for it around, because that will push you to misplace your trust.

A lot is waiting for you to blindly trust to benefit from you and take advantage of you in a way that may harm you, so be careful enough and use others as much as not to harm you, learn to be satisfied with yourself, to enjoy your loneliness, to fill your spare time, and to master the art of making yourself happy by yourself, do not live on the sidelines of life waiting Change, nothing will change, people and the world will remain as they are, what must change is you, adapt to this life and do not waste your life in this complaint that will not benefit you and will not benefit you, it is only the reason for wasting your time for nothing.

Start from today!

Set yourself a goal and an endeavor, and do not pay attention to what others say: “You will fail, do not try, do not leave the safe zone, do not take risks, etc.” Leave all of them. Most likely, if one of them is in the same situation as you, do not make decisions that are very different from what he advises you now.

Only you can determine your position on life, choose for yourself a company that has the same desires and tendencies and do not expect from them more than what they can offer you, in this way you guarantee you and them a safe relationship from betrayal and disappointment, that is, lower your expectations of what others will do for you, because they are most likely They will not do anything!

Establish a routine that does not require the presence of friends and family all the time and give yourself enough time to enjoy your life away from the absurdities of others. Find the values ​​of beauty that many people do not see around you and try to enjoy them.

And do not reveal your small pleasures so as not to spoil the depth of their impact on yourself, bring a cup of tea or a cup of coffee and enjoy it while watching both sunrise and sunset, learn how to arrange your thoughts and answer the questions that float in your mind so that you always reach a state of Silence and psychological peace.

And know that as soon as you reach your self-sufficiency, you will find everyone welcomes your presence with them, they will ask to be with you, and the faithful will make sure that you are their companion, because birds in their shapes always fall..