Love needs to be poor, marriage needs to be rich

There is a short article called "Love can be eaten as food", which means that as long as a pot of water is carefully boiled, a cup of essence can also be boiled, that is, the heroine took her boyfriend's Tremella lotus seed soup. And other people want to get half a cup or a leftover, it is also delusional. It can be seen that love is a separate family, and a piece of the soup is a threshold. Because it's so time-consuming and troublesome, if you don't love him, you'll hate the trouble of making soup. Therefore, love can feed itself. No matter how poor you are, as long as you have water, as long as you can afford white fungus and lotus seeds, you can manage your love well. Who said that boiling lotus seed soup in a rental house is not a kind of happiness? Low cost, high efficiency, and more life.

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Think about it, if a man and a woman in love use everything to be philosophical, how can you experience this love? There is a saying "sitting in the villa and thinking about love", it is conceivable that the villa is a place lacking love, and maybe there is love in the villa, but it always makes the parties feel unreal, because it is utilitarian from the beginning, and this The place is as convenient as a supermarket, you don't need to pay anything for the other party, so there is no way to test the gold content of love. Now is the era of "no house but no marriage". "Men have a house" has become the unspoken rule of marriage, and owning a house and a car is the "starting price" when talking about marriage. Therefore, the hard indicator for men is "good appearance." ,smaller than me".

The rich second-generation blind date is almost always priced like this, because they question whether the other party has a crush on them, or whether they are interested in their own property? Relying on this lack of self-confidence, it is not a disadvantage to judge people by their appearance first. What a naked deal! Who can truly surrender themselves to the other? And a person with bare hands can believe that the other party is coming for this person, so love is also solid. Because of the process of building a love nest together, every detail is the touchstone of love. Therefore, it makes sense that love is poor.

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And marriage seems to be just the opposite. You need to be rich to see whether your partner is loyal or not. There is a saying, "We can share weal and woe, but we cannot share sweetness", which refers to the change of marriage. Usually in the poverty stage, both husband and wife can keep this trembling marriage, because they need to support each other! But once they get out of the predicament and become rich, this seems to be an opportunity for some people to cross the river and demolish the bridge. Hand over a leave of absence. It can only be said that this kind of person has always been lurking in his bones, but the time has not come and he has no courage. Then, in a poor marriage, it is difficult to see the color of the heart, and only by making it rich can you see the true face of Mount Lu.

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In a marriage that is not rushing for a living and is rich in material things, from the beginning, they can stick to each other without distractions and share the sweetness. Such marriages are often impregnable. Even if we quarrel, it will not prevent a happy ending of "growing old together".