Why the Magical Woman With the Deepest Love Is All Alone...

Why is that magical woman with the deepest love always overlooked and all alone?

She doesn’t have time to play games with your mind and heart. She will be straightforward concerning her desires. She will be expressive and communicative about the connection you share and the feelings she feels. Her lover must be restless with the confines of game playing. Her lover must be open.

She doesn’t seek pleasure in being in-authentic. She will be herself at all times, no matter what that entails. She embraces and accepts every aspect of herself; even her darkest, most broken parts. She doesn’t hide. She seeks in each moment to reconcile the broken parts of her soul with the broken parts of yours. You will not face her without facing yourself first. Her lover must be brave.

She doesn’t allow insecurity to control her. She will enjoy your moments together fully and be ready to let go when necessary. She understands that nothing in this life is permanent and to truly maintain any relationship you must be active, moldable, aware and constantly growing into the new shapes created by your love making. She will be eager to show you how much you mean to her and she will trust that you feel just as invested. She will be responsive to your wants and needs and take time to get to know what makes you feel the most loved in her presence. Her lover must know themselves. Her lover must be secure.

She doesn’t have time to waste. Each moment spent, each word spoken, each token of love given will be filled with intention. She treats everything between you as special and sacred. She understands that to truly thrive with another you must both have a vision and tenderness for your love. She will constantly seek ways to bring intention into your relationship. You will know where you stand and where you are going with this woman at all times. Her lover must be sure. Her lover must know what they want.

She knows her worth so when she sees something that’s good FOR her, she grabs ahold and cherishes it with all of her might. Her lover must know deeply what they are worth as well to be able to receive her with an open heart. They must be able to see that the love she beckons is a love that lives within them as well as within her. Not separate but one. Not unrequited, but equally unrelenting. Her lover must recognize and enjoy the feeling of being loved. Her lover must embrace the truth of love around them.

She doesn’t play small, she plays for keeps. She wants to grow, build, explore and enjoy life with her lover. The relationship will not be a distraction; the relationship will be an enhancement to their life. She wants the relationship to become an asset to the both of you. They understand that when you build with the one you love you create the unbreakable foundation needed to sustain through anything. Her lover must be ready to shine and step into their own greatness.

When faced with the reality of this woman most will falter. Most will run away out of fear or doubt. Most will be uninterested due to the lack of dysfunction. Some might even TRY to take advantage of or control this woman. At the end of the day it comes down to the fact that we live in a generation where people don’t really want someone good because good is "BORING". It’s safe; unable to give them the pain their souls are so used to suffering through. So unfortunately this magical woman is sitting some where alone and rejected, wondering why she wasn’t good enough.

Well, I’m here to tell myself and all the other magical women out there that You ARE good enough! You’re TOO GOOD for them all. & unfortunately this world likes to destroy good things. Protect that magical, transformative love. I don’t know if it ever gets better but if you’re reading this you’re not alone. Maybe some day someone will be ready to take the leap, but maybe not. The good thing is women like us will be AMAZING either way! Make them watch and wish they had the courage to love you. You know what I mean if you’re a true magical woman!

XO

ramonalovejoy