Why I will never support virtual sugar relationships

When it comes to relationships especially to sugar arrangements there's this thought that you don't have to meet the person you are with and still have a relationship. I never understood this whole idea. The best part of being with someone is dating.

The major thing is if you don't meet then how do you know that you're not being catfished. You may think that you are talking to a 60-year-old billionaire, but you could be talking to a 20-year-old broke college kid who wants to see your boobs.

Some of these cam girls who pose as sugar babies have the reasoning of "well I can make money without meeting". Cool then call yourself a cam girl. Just because you call yourself a sugar baby doesn't make you one.

Real sugar daddies are paying for the privilege of being in your presence. So, you are less likely to get a real sugar daddy if you don't meet. Just a reminder of what a sugar baby is. A sugar baby is someone who dates for money. How can you date and be arm candy if you never meet?

Also, if you are a cam girl or sending videos/pictures to a person you never met you're more likely to be a victim of revenge porn. Revenge porn is the distribution of sexually explicit images or videos of individuals without their consent.

If you don't meet, you're also less likely to get the money. Meeting builds more trust and why would you trust someone to just give you money if they never met you? Why would you basically pay someone you never met? What if they're not real?

I don't even know what all virtual sugar babies offer. I know some offer cam girl stuff. But that' not sugar that's borderline sex work.

I also know that there are some people who will say "the online sugar baby gets mentorship." That's ok but be prepared to only get mentorship. Why would someone pay to mentor you? It's supposed to mutually exclusive so what are they getting out of it? Are they paying for the joy of helping you?

Now if the sugar daddy is using his money as a scholarship that is one thing but that maybe slightly different.

The reasons that the sugar babies give to be an online sugar baby is safety and not wanting to meet. It's more dangerous to be a virtual sugar baby because it's usually a scam. Also how do you date if you don't meet? Is it because they're old or ugly? They're sugar daddies they're going to be older. If not attracted to them then don't date them or fake it till you make it.

Now that AI is a thing the virtual sugar baby will be no more (thank God).

To me the risk outweighs the benefits. If you want to be a sugar baby get over your fears, be safe and do the damn work.

The one thing that the virtual sugar baby claim is that this to hide their identity or to protect their identity. Here's the thing how are you getting paid, paypal will show your real name since it's link to your bank account. Plus if you can't prove your real identity some guys will not give you money. They want real and not manufactured or fake. You also can't get tattooed on the parts you're showing. I just don't get it.

It's like a job if you don't show up and do something you won't get paid. If you don't want to meet just become a cam girl.

Join in the conversation. What do you think? What do you think the virtual babies do?