Why I Ghosted my first Tinder Date

Why I Ghosted my first Tinder Date

Tinder can be a cold place to go to if you’re on it lookin’ for love. Most people have one thing on they mind when they swipin’. SEX!! And some are actually on it because they have a hard time meeting people and want a genuine connection. Well, let's just say I was in the right place for the wrong reasons.

For me, I was thinkin’ “tinder is a joke” and “let me see who swiped right on my thirst traps”. You know, nothin’ serious and after a dozen nopes I matched with my first victim. Not really a victim, but he was fine and I for sure was interested. 31 years old, 6’2, Master's Degree in Molecular Biology. All I was thinkin’ was this nigga is fine and paid and I need him on my team. Mr. Tall Dark and Handsome is what I called him. No kids and Never Married was in his bio too; good cuz I don’t do baggage at all! Overall a really good catch, and you know ya girl reeled that fish right on in.

Like a moth to a flame burned by the fire (Janet Jackson voice)

The conversation was on point!! Boom, the date was set and he invited me out to The Cheesecake Factory on his lunch break. I personally hate Cheesecake Factory, but I accepted the invite cuz it was on his lunch break and on him, which meant I didn’t have to deal with his ass for long and it was a free meal. Tbh, I didn’t really think twice about if he was a weirdo or not because I wasn’t looking for love and he was fine and paid with no baggage!

Yeah, NO baggage is what I thought and this is where everything went all the way left!

The date was cute or whatever, he was very charmin’ and I could tell he put is best foot forward. But after the first date and a few days of conversation I realized this nigga was batshit CRAZY and he was hooked at first sight. I’m guessin’ he was really hooked from the first conversation and the date sealed the damn deal because by day 5 he went from cool, got it together, and fine to a I need you in my life and I can't control my emotions or self when I'm wit cha’ type of nigga. He wouldn’t stop calling me, even when I was at work, and when I did decide to answer for his ass, he wanted to talk all damn day. No nigga, I have a life and it don’t revolve around you! I was trying to be nice because I liked the attention. I can’t even lie and yall may say he don’t sound that bad you trippin’.

But this last straw made me block his ass and run for the Himalayas!

This man found me on all my social media platforms, went thru the comments and stuff people posted of my Facebook page and found my momma’s Facebook page and contacted her and introduced himself to her as her future son-in-law; mind you, me and my momma not even friends on Facebook. So that meant he did some diggin’ to find her. I never gave him any of my social media info and he didn’t even know my last name so I don’t know how the hell he found my momma. And it had only been two weeks, a few conversations, and 1 fucking date!

No Ma’am No Ham & No Turkey!

After that, it was a NO for me. He got blocked so fast on every possible thing and I was out; Like a thief in da night.

Moral of the story yall, everything that glitter ain’t gold and be careful who yall meet on these online dating sites cuz it’s a lot of weirdos in these streets. And they are out here lurkin’ and be unstable AF so just be careful who emotions you try to play with.

If you liked this one, Check Out Chapter 2 My Second Tinder Date Ghosted Me...