Why a Woman Should Never Call a Man

Okay, here’s the scene…

You’re in a cool nightclub or bar and you see a hot guy coming toward you. After some small talk, he gives you HIS number and says (in the most seductive voice you’ve ever heard) “Call me…”

Then he silently slips back into the night.

What do you do?

A. Do you call him from your cell phone while he’s in the men’s room?

B. Do you call him that night and tell him how much you enjoyed talking to him?

C. Do you wait and call him first thing in the morning?

No! None of the above!

You don’t call him at all!

A man who gives you his number is a player and wants to see how many women he can hook with that seductive line, “Call me …” Once you call him, you lose!

A real man, a man who is interested in you, will ask you for YOUR number and not play head games with you, especially after you’ve had a few drinks.

Okay, let’s try this again … here’s the scene:

You’ve just had the most romantic and wonderful first date of your life. You are on cloud nine and you feel in your heart he might feel the same way.

After he takes you home and you have a soft, subtle kiss goodnight (no tongue on the first date) you slide inside your house, plop down on the couch and think … Ahhhh …

Do you:

A. Call or text him immediately to tell him what a wonderful time you had?

B. Start a romantic bubble bath, grab a glass of wine and call him from the tub?

C. Do nothing!

If you picked C, you’re right. Never, ever call a man after a date. Never!

You may be thinking … you want to be polite; you want to be a nice girl and thank him for dinner. Hopefully, you already thanked him after the meal.

Again, do nothing! Do not call him!

If you must call someone, call one of your friends, call your mother, talk to your cat … just don’t call him!

If you call him, you give away your power, it’s done, it’s over, that’s all folks!

By calling him, you showed him how desperate for a man you are. You gave HIM the power and it’s game over!

A real man, a man who is interested in you, will call YOU!

If you give away your power you are showing him who’s in charge-HIM! You don’t want that. It may sound like a lot of game playing, but it’s not, it’s how men think and how they operate. Men respond to action or, in this case, non-action.

Let him call you.

Well, what if three days (who came up with that time frame, anyway) go by, should you call him then?

No!

Do not call him! Do not text him! Do not have your friends call or text him! Do not call his friends to call or text him! Do not send him smoke signals! Do not send a carrier pigeon to his house! Don’t do it!

What if a week or a month goes by and still no call from him?

Even then … do not call him!

If he was really that into you and you haven’t heard from him in a month … then he is probably dead in a ditch somewhere.

♥ Trust me, if a man likes you, he will call you. He will make the first move, so let him. ♥

If a week or a month goes by, and you still haven’t heard from him, and he is not dead in a ditch somewhere … guess what? He’s not into you, so let it go and move on. Game over.

Whatever you do, keep your self-respect and never, ever chase a man!

This shows a man you do not need him in your life. You may want him, you may even crave him, but you don’t need him. Never let him see you sweat.

A man finds an independent and confident woman sexy beyond words! He is used to women clinging to him, chasing him, or in some cases-stalking him! Don’t be that woman. Stand out from the crowd and show him the strong, beautiful, and independent woman you are!

After you begin dating and things are cool between the two of you, then, by all means, call one another when appropriate. Just don’t breathe down his neck and let him have some breathing room. He’ll find you even more irresistible than you already are!