When You Feel Like Changing Your Partner......

Over the years of being together, people tend to be a little bored with their loved ones isn't it? Sometimes, you felt the other half of another person is better than yours and you are tempted to look for a new and 'better' one.

So how could this happen, people always say if you love a person enough, you wont get attracted by another person and they usually chose the second one as they believe that theory it's true. But what if i tell you it could be ended up differently if you just do this few things before considering a break up.

Human is a special creature where we easily get attracted to something new and attractive as they felt is interesting. In fact, people mistakenly thought they are falling in love with someone new without even thinking about it twice. Out of sudden this human just popped out and you guys have lots of common things to talk about and you felt this is the one i am looking for but not the current one.

Let me ask you a question, you did even read back the old conversation that you both had at the beginning. Seems familiar and sweet like the one you having now isn't it? Do you still do all the little things that craft smiles on her/his face? Sometimes its just us confusing ourself and taking our loved one for granted.

Before you make that decision, please look back and recollect those beautiful memories that you both create together. Kiss her before sleep, hug tight and enjoy the tiny little things which you both had not do for such long period of time. Ask yourself it is worth throwing away the memories you guys had for the past few year and the chemistry you guys build up. Those argument and solution that you guys worked out to solve the problems you guys been through. Do you want to redo it all over again but this time with another person who you haven't got any idea comparing with the current one. It is worth? If looking back on those memories and photos doesn't spark back your love towards her............. then maybe, its the time for you let go your other half and yourself for a better relationship.

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Another way of thinking about this is switch the position of you and your partner. Do you think that they did not face the situation before? What's the choice they made in the end? YES! they chose you instead of the new one. In general, people will eventually get attracted by another person at some point of time. Its the matter of choice and whether to stay or go. I personally experience it before to be honest but I chose my current one. Its not wrong to have some 'special feeling' for someone new, but it really depends on how you handle them. In the end of the day, its still regarding the feeling you would have for the rest of your life. Not necessarily you had to stay considering the point i stated above. Rethink the memories and sweetness you guys been through. If you're getting tired of it and think it will not be the same in the future, then consider changing one. Because loyal does not really mean a key to succession in relationship. It is the special feeling that the other half could give you in make you want to stay and being loyal to them. That special feeling is the key of long term meanwhile happy relationship to both and personally I think that's the main component. Of course, you can disagree with it but that's just a point of my thought.

That's all for today my advice for a long term relationship and you felt lost thinking about changing your partner. Hope it helped you.