What is love?

What is love? What is love according to the poet? Love is a ray of light that illuminates your life and gives you warmth. Love is a glass of water that quenches your thirst in the desert. Love is a kind gesture that touches your heart. Love is a warm smile that brings colorful Xuan Li to your gray life. Love is a flower, a flower with a fixed period, from the bud to bloom, gradually towards the bleak zero, if you miss and then to remember, the only love in vain. Love is tea, a pot of tea from the thick into the light, from the hot to the afterglow, the human heart needs to be quiet, whether you go or stay, it will turn into a slight cool.

Love is smoke, a wisp of desert smoke, from rich to hazy, close to the heart, the clearer you look, the deeper the pain, even if the pain becomes its heart forever pain. Love is a dream, a joy an empty, from the dream, wakes up to the empty stay, late meeting difficult to keep each other, waking up poignant drunk after the end of the world, also true and illusory, who understand which fool? It is a good idea to take a look at the latest version of the book. Everyone has their understanding of love philosophers speak of what is love.

The fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on this. This is a very real way of speaking, because it is very shallow, from phenomenon to phenomenon, and does not trace its origin. What do historians say about love? The first thing you need to do is to have a good understanding of what you are doing. Perhaps the vaguest explanation for love is reasonable.

The sexual instinct is one level, spiritual solace is another, and adding the first two together with cultural meaning, sublimation and sanctification are another. Thus love as a human being is complicated. Animal love has only the first level, not the last two. The love of man is the sum of these three levels, and because each person has a different degree of focus on the three levels, there is a standard of love in everyone's mind, a mess that can not be sorted out but very much wants to sort out, it gives you the feeling of mystery, but regardless of the motivation of the three levels how to focus, concentrated on the ancient Greek mythical search. The moment this search arises, love is a perfect picture and a perfect truth. When the actual process of finding someone, falling in love, and getting married comes, it becomes a flawed projection of this perfect picture.

What does love mean in reality?

The actual love process is just a metaphor for the ideal world, and any metaphor is lame, so doubt arises, and doubt is transformed into a motivation to seek it out. In the case of love alone, no matter what way you look for it, it is always imperfect and futile. The fact is, that we can only lower our requirements and change the search for love to the search for happiness.

I think we can be together in marriage, probably can be considered happy, which requires another prerequisite, is the world often talk about fate, marriage is a margin, but this margin has two points of contact, a point of contact is the marriage, there is a point of contact is love, marriage includes people living in the region, occupation, position, industry. Relatives, interpersonal relationships, and so on. These factors at a suitable moment will lead a man and a woman to become a couple. Love is the basis of love, two people in a deeper level of interaction, the calm after the appearance, gender, fame, and fortune of these superficial attractions, to find a sense of missing. Unfortunately, when the world speaks of marriage, it is often the case that the two kinds of fate are mixed, often losing sight of each other. Marriage without love is immoral, but few people think about the opposite, the lack of the necessary conditions for a family marriage, is also not very happy.