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What Is It That Makes A Relationship So Fabulous?

Make your connection the most loving it can possibly be.

By ZoyaPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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What Is It That Makes A Relationship So Fabulous?
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You are my favorite person. If spoken correctly, these few simple sentences may pack a powerful blow.

The problem is that some individuals can't utter it without their jaws falling open. The way they fidget and beat about the bush before ultimately speaking the words makes you worry they'll change and turn into ogres.

Then there are individuals that freely utter the words yet don't mean what they're saying. It makes no difference whether they utter the words or not. What important is that a partnership is honest and enjoyable.

What makes a relationship succeed in the first place?

All types of relationships are affected by the same elements. Whether it's a romantic connection, a familial relationship, a friendship, an office relationship, or a business partnership, the same principles apply.

If one of the pillars is missing, the entire structure collapses. The foundation is made up of three pillars. The three pillars are known as The Relationship Tripod.

Let's take a closer look at each of them:

Friendship

To begin, it's important to realize that a partnership takes at least two individuals to exist, much alone work. The other person must be able to see you.

If you're in a long-distance relationship, you need to feel like the other person is present.

Taking the other's presence for trust and expecting the other to keep an eye on you won't help you. Compassion is also required.

It's only a matter of time before you fail if you keep up your act of indifference. Your sentiments for the other person must be felt by them.

Kindness, tenderness, understanding - anything that demonstrates your concern for them is appreciated. Isn't it easy to say, "I'm sure everything will be fine," right?

Whoever is the recipient of this display of affection must reciprocate.

In a partnership, everyone must do their part because it is a give-and-take situation.

Reconciliation

Relationships are a give-and-take dynamic, as previously said. Even though two persons appear to be identical, there may be little variances that cause conflict.

As a result, every disagreement, no matter how little or important, must be resolved.

All of them matter, especially in a relationship. Someone needs to triumph, and someone else has to surrender. This is why it's so important to talk about diversity.

What is the issue with the discrepancies? What's the issue, exactly? Who should make concessions and adapt to the situation?

All of these issues must be rectified. Conceding does not render you a failure; contrary, it demonstrates the value you have in a relationship.

You are correct, I suppose. These words may be the answer to your problems.

Interaction

There would have been no disagreements, no displays of emotion, and no words said without dialogue.

In a relationship, the third and final leg is perhaps the most important. It allows us to understand how the other side feels and what is required for the relationship to succeed.

It allows us to speak what we want and need to communicate. In other words, if the last one is missing, the other two legs will not work. Even a tiny act of communication can improve a relationship significantly.

At the very least, you can perform simple things like writing a tiny message on a piece of paper or sending short emails.

Make an effort to make your existence and relationship more authentic. Don't take this for granted; many relationships fall apart because of a lack of communication.

For example, consider a deep connection. Many people fail, but some thrive because they communicate with one another on a daily basis. Even business colleagues communicate by providing status updates to one another.

As Fern Sam puts it, any kind of relationship is like a box of chocolates. Some are tasty, but others aren't.

Overall, owning a box of candy gives you a wonderful sensation since eating each piece of chocolate provides you with an experience — a harsh, rich, or jaded one. In a box, you don't receive all of the flavors you want.

So, if you're searching for a connection that's simple just on body and intellect, prepare to be disappointed. It necessitates exertion.

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