True love takes risks

The so-called true love is for two people to let go of their defenses and love each other sincerely. Therefore, true love is about taking risks.

　　The first risk to take is to be willing to let the other person know your heart. When we are in love, we bring out our best side every time we see each other, but a personality with heavy makeup is difficult to last. Be who you are, and you will be respected by the other person and make the relationship last.

　　Letting the other person know your heart means: Does he know what is going on inside you? Many people have a fragile and sensitive heart under the cold and strong exterior. A majestic and mighty big man may have a weak and lack of self-confidence inner child. In order to keep these "shortcomings" from being revealed, we use a lot of defense mechanisms that hurt intimate relationships and consume a lot of energy, but they are all in vain. Under normal circumstances, the other party does not leave because your inner world is revealed, but because the various defense mechanisms you have adopted make the other party too uncomfortable and detached.

　　If you don't reveal your inner world to the other person, how can you give the other person a chance to give you true love?

　　The second risk to take is to be willing to give up the guarantee of eternity. How can there be anything constant in the world? The most irrefutable truth is "impermanence". Since things are impermanent, how can you ask the other person to love you forever? The reason why we make such a request and have such expectations is because we have given a lot ourselves, we are afraid of losing, and we cannot afford betrayal. How can you possibly get true love in return when you can't fall in love because of fear of getting hurt?

　　If at this moment, "I'm your favorite, and you're mine," isn't that enough? People who talk about things for a long time and talk about things for a long time are not qualified to get true love.

　　The third risk to take is the eyes of others. The reason why I have this emotion is because of a friend. A man broke into her heart, but he was just an ordinary driver. They fell into a relationship, but the woman never admitted the relationship. The main reason is that the man's education, knowledge, social status, and earning ability are too far from hers. She is afraid of criticism from others, especially her parents.

　　Can other people bring you happiness? Anyone who will laugh at you is not your friend. Just cut off your relationship with them and don't have to communicate with them. And her parents, are they willing to see their daughter die alone, or are they accompanied by a man who sincerely loves each other? In fact, the most important thing is, does this friend herself feel contempt because this man's conditions are far from hers in all aspects? If so, in this case, true love will not come, because what she gave was not true love in the first place.

　　I believe that true love has no boundaries, no burdens, and no conditions. Maybe we won't meet in this life, maybe we'll be lucky enough to meet, I dare not say. But what is certain is that you will recognize it the moment you meet it.

Two people who truly love each other will not lose to appearance distance, height and age, former mistress, gossip from others, opposition from parents, only to disrespect. Cherish, lose to distrust.