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Transformation of dating in the digital age: things you need to know

Here’s how going online has made matchmaking so convenient in the 21st-century.

By Jonathan DraperPublished 3 years ago 3 min read
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If you’re single and looking for a compatible partner, have you ever considered going online? More and more individuals are signing up to dating sites, drawn to the convenience offered by these platforms. An ever-expanding choice of websites and apps are available, providing an environment where you can connect with an array of exciting and interesting people. Whether you want to hook up with other singles for casual encounters or you’re seeking marriage-minded singles, here are some of the things you should know about digital dating.

Compatibility lies at the core

The moment you’ve registered, you can begin browsing through the profiles of other site users, keeping an eye out for individuals ticking your boxes. Whether it’s their looks or the hobbies and interests they have, you can instantly narrow down your possible partners to a shortlist of the most suitable candidates.

Marginalized people love virtual dating

Before the advent of digital matchmaking, certain individuals felt their options for socializing were more restricted than those available in ‘mainstream’ society. This was particularly the case for gay people. But online dating has been embraced by those identifying in this way, with gays or lesbians, twice as likely to join dating sites as their straight counterparts. If the bars or clubs where they could hang out were always harder to find, there are now so many gay websites. It proved to be especially important to mature individuals. Social connections are extremely important in the lives of members of the LGBTQ community. No matter what type of relationship you’re looking for you can find so many opportunities online. Outlets similar to gaystryst represent a haven where they can chat and flirt with kindred spirits, and will ever feel as if they are being judged. Algorithms built into this site will also provide appropriate contacts based on the aspirations you specify when asked about your ideal partner. Anyone new to this scene can find support and guidance in chat rooms or by checking out blog posts.

There’s a website for every taste

The earliest commercial dating sites tended to offer a generic platform for their members, a place where A could meet B and quickly initiate flirty conversations. In the digital age, A is free to connect with B, C, D, right up to Z, as the possibilities for the type of partners you can aspire to are limitless. There are now thousands of websites, catering to every possible taste, from the LGBTQ community to senior dating. You can pop any of these options into a search engine will unleash a surprising amount of options.

Communication is straightforward

Joining one of these sites will give you access to various ways of touching base. There are shortcuts you can take, such as sending ‘winks’ or adding a ‘like’ to profiles, that will let someone know you’re interested before you’ve even got round to composing a message. The moment your interest is reciprocated, you can send texts or emails, or phone the person for an informal chat. There are WhatsApp groups you could get involved with, and even video chatting software to take advantage of.

The community aspect

Online dating has evolved into so much more than a platform for organizing actual dates. Entering chat rooms and forums will allow you to join in all sorts of captivating group discussions. So as well as seeking a prospective love interest, you can use these sites for widening your social circle. The blogs will provide a valuable source of information on a range of issues connected with relationships. The more you log into your dating account to interact with the other members, the greater your confidence will grow.

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Jonathan Draper

I'm Chief Editor of relationship blog at Loveaholics.com.

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