Tips to prepare the first date

Before a first date, you usually have high hopes for that meeting and you always want it to go as well as possible. This is something universal that happens to both women and men and although you have the mistaken idea that we give less thought to that first meeting, the reality is that we give it as much importance as they do since surely your wish is that everything goes well and the other person leaves delighted from that first time and with an excellent impression of you. In case, you are single and is eagerly want to be committed, we have for you covered since the Bedpage is a platform that can help you find your perfect match.

So keep reading because with these ideas you can be more confident and thanks to this your probability that the first date is a success will be much higher.

1. On the first date you will have fun

An appointment is not an exam or a job interview, but the opportunity to have a good time meeting another person. Take the pressure off and don't be hard on yourself. It is an experience that must be enjoyable and fun for both of you. So do not have too many expectations or insist that your date become the love of your life, do not force things. What if it goes wrong? Well ... in the worst case, it will become a good anecdote to tell your friends, do not be martyred for it and get ready for the next first date with another girl.

2. Be yourself always

Dress in a set that cannot fail because it makes you feel comfortable and attractive, you will go more confident and sure of yourself to the appointment and that shows. Or buy yourself something new and premiere that garment on your date. But don't dress up, always be yourself or it will show and you will cause the opposite effect. You can always go through our fashion guide to stay up-to-date with the latest trends and be sure to choose the right outfit.

Another thing to keep in mind is where you are going to stay with that person since depending on the place you will have to go more or less arranged. The fact that your partner for that day sees that you know how to dress appropriately for the occasion will make a good first impression that you already know that on a first date is something very important.

3. Leave your ex crazy at home

Your date wants to meet you. He is not interested in knowing how bad he was ex, he will also think that you have prejudices towards all the girls and that if one did something to you, you think that they will all do it. Do not tell him about your last girlfriend, partner, or a friend with the right. The first date is to meet you, leave the rest of the people out of the equation that night. It bores and does not interest.

4. Be positive

There's only one thing more boring than talking about exes, and that is talking about your life problems, work problems, criticism of other people (and that she doesn't even know), complaints you have and feel the need to share with everyone who wants to listen, all that should be left out of your conversation. The best thing you can do is take a sincere interest in her life, ask her questions and listen, but above all, and make her laugh. That is the secret of triumph on a first date, the more laughter the greater the chance of meeting a second time.

5. Behave naturally

We all want to be accepted as we are, so for a first date, you should be as you are. Do not pretend to be better or makeup stories that you do not believe or that will not be sustained. Maybe that person is the ideal for you and if you continue to stay in the end he will realize that you are not like that. Do not try to impress her at every opportunity, you are not selling her anything, be spontaneous, and act naturally. If you do not agree with what he says take the opposite, talk about yourself, but do not make the whole conversation mono theme about yourself, that you are 50% you 50%.

A good trick is to imagine that you are with a friend that you know, but you have not seen for a while and you are catching up, so everything will be much more natural and you will transmit to her a feeling of closeness that will make her feel more comfortable.