Three Reasons Why Men Fall in Love

What makes a man fall in love with one woman and not the next?

Why did he leave you after X amount of years without you ever hearing those three magical little words then go off to marry the new girl after only a few short months?

Men may seem like a mystery, but they really aren’t that complicated.

There are certain things about a woman that make a man fall crazy, head-over-heels in love with her and you may be surprised to know it’s not just one thing.

He must be totally captivated by the total package of her.

A man must feel he can see her in his future, and that basically, he can’t live without her.

He wants to feel he can make her happy above all other men. They are no different from women and we all want to feel connected to another person.

When a man feels appreciated and loved by you, this is telling him that he makes you happy.

He loves the way he feels around you.

Men want a woman who is open and ready for love and one who knows her own self-worth. They want a woman who knows what she wants and is ready for a lasting relationship.

Be the total package to a man. Be fun, sexy, generous, independent, loving, affectionate, loyal, and be a friend to him. One day, out of the blue, he is going to think, “Wow, I love this woman, how did that happen?” By then, he’s already hooked.

Men want a woman who is not high-maintenance. They want someone uncomplicated and someone who has fun in life and is not afraid to try new things. Even if you fail or don’t like it, you were willing to give it a try.

A man will fall in love with a woman who makes him feel purposeful, fulfilled, attractive, energized, and loved.

A man wants to feel safe around you and to be able to be himself when you are together.

Men love women who are totally themselves, curves and all! Men hate it when women cut themselves down or feel bad about themselves. You need to love you and he will love you, too!

A woman who can make a man laugh is a real keeper. Men love a woman who has a great sense of humor.

When She is Ready and Open for Love

When a woman is ready to fall in love, she gives off little signals she may not even be aware of, but a man can see them. These signals let a man know it is okay to proceed. She lets herself be vulnerable and lets her man see the real her, not some made up version of who she thinks he wants to see. She’s real and not afraid to laugh at herself.

She is confident in who she is and she shows her man respect and it is returned. She also needs to present herself in such a way that feels deserving of love. A man wants a woman who feels she is worthy of loving and being loved. When a man feels this comfortable with a woman, he begins to take a step back and look at her in a whole new light. Then he takes a step forward. Men fall in love with a woman who is open, receptive, and ready to be loved.

These are just some of the reasons men fall in love and like I said, it’s not just one little thing. It’s the total package.

♥ Always remember, be a woman whom you love first. Self-love and respect must come before a man will love and respect you. ♥