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These Qualities Attract Women to You

It's not just a sixpack and cash, as you might think.

By LunaPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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These Qualities Attract Women to You
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What does it take for a woman to be appealing to a man?

Most of the time, being attractive is sufficient. In that regard, we males aren't very complex.

That is, of course, an exaggeration.

But one thing is certain: women are pickier, and a man must check multiple boxes.

Let's look at these boxes more closely.

1. Be courteous. He's not a pleasant person

This headline may seem perplexing.

Please allow me to clarify.

Many guys believe that by being polite to a woman, they may win her heart and/or her bed. They're only kind because they're looking for something in return, which is usually sex.

Women are continually picking up on this behavior, and it appears to be quite unappealing. The nice guy syndrome is another name for it.

It is, on the other hand, considerably more appealing if you do one of the following:

  • You assist elderly persons across the street.
  • You offer your bus seat to ladies with children or the elderly.
  • You have a knack for working with youngsters of all ages.
  • You enjoy dogs.
  • ...as well as a lot more. I think you get what I'm saying.

All of these tasks have one thing in common: you perform them without expecting anything in return. You're a true kind guy. He's not a pleasant person.

Men who perform altruistic actions, such as donating blood, have more sex, according to a 2016 research by the University of Guelph and Nipissing University.

2. Use of Body Language

I believe this one is underappreciated. It's quite effective.

Our body language reveals a great deal about ourselves. We all do it, whether we recognize it or not. The way you move, stand and face others says a lot about you. It looks quite appealing if you can convey confidence through your body language.

One of the most crucial attributes a man must possess in order to be appealing to women is confidence. Approachability is demonstrated through open body language. So, while you're flirting, don't cross your arms.

Smiling and making eye contact are two more tricks. A grin elicits good feelings, and maintaining eye contact demonstrates confidence. It's a concoction that makes her melt.

3. Make her chuckle

It's enticing to be amusing. There are a variety of reasons for this, including the fact that it is a strong indicator of intellect.

To be honest, this is most likely only effective when combined with physical beauty. If she thinks you're hot, a 5/10 joke could be enough to have her laugh, but the ordinary guy would have to really nail the joke to get her to laugh.

However, don't go overboard and don't force it. Never act as though you're a clown.

4. Physical fitness

Of course, this has an impact.

But don't panic, boys, you don't need to to the gym every day to look good.

Numerous investigations, including one from UCLA, have come to the same conclusion. The most appealing physique type is that of an athlete. You do not, however, need to be exceptionally slender or strong.

5. Obtaining Resources

Money appears to be important.

At the very least, a little.

This makes great sense when viewed from an evolutionary standpoint.

Could you support a family if a lady became pregnant with you?

This is what ladies must do in order to enhance their chances of having healthy children.

According to research published in Evolution and Human Behaviour, women are far more sensitive to their partner's wealth than males are.

The study included photographs of men and women, as well as the evaluated person's wealth.

The findings are fascinating: although a 10x increase in money was adequate for a guy to go up two points on the beauty scale, women need a 10,000x rise in income to obtain the same level of appeal.

6. Put on your best outfit

Being well-dressed demonstrates social standing. You have a greater chance with ladies if you appear to make a lot of money.

Our personal style, according to Psychology Today, can even influence our level of success.

What is the reason behind this?

If you dress nicely, you will be regarded much better by others. Other desirable traits are presumed as a result of your attractive appearance. The halo effect is a type of unconscious thinking mistake.

You also view yourself differently based on how you dress. Improved self-confidence is a result of good attire.

Men, on the whole, appear to be having a serious dating dilemma. In the post below, I go through the disturbing statistics in further depth. This is why I believe many men should read it and improve their game.

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