These people really know how to play

A, miss the good, let go of the bad

People in this life, do the wrong thing, which is a kind of pain.

And look at the wrong person, is a lifelong injury.

Missing those originally worth believing in, not only will let you have less of a friendship that may become a best friend.

It's a good idea to have a look at your own eyes, and whether they are worth believing in.

If you let go of those who treat you badly, you will feel weak at first.

In the long run, the wounds are not healed.

The pain came again and again, and finally found that

It turns out that once the unwilling, is not so easy to forget.

The good things you miss and the bad things you let go of in this life.

These two things are a particularly severe punishment for yourself.

Because it is a wound that has no antidote.

The scars you see are the scars of past naivety and ignorance.

What you remember most is not good, but the pain.

The most important thing to remember is not good, but the pain.

Second, some things will only be wrong again and again

Nowadays, society is full of greed, and the hearts of the people are dangerous.

So, the really smart people will have the right way to "protect" themselves.

And these means of protection, fools are often unable to understand.

For example, on the issue of the expressiveness of wealth

Pretending to be rich is for the stupid.

Acting poor is the unspoken practice of understanding.

After all, pretending to be rich is not rich, pretending to be rich, is the hope that through the material can show off, to make others think highly of themselves.

But, pretending to be rich, will pay the price of how much to put aside.

This kind of pretends behavior can get others to look up.

We may wish to analyze the reality of the impact of this behavior.

First of all, pretend to be rich, the discerning eye will know.

Even if you don't see it at first, the long-term contact between the hands and feet, those deliberately show off and low-key, will always let people understand some God knows what.

It will always let people understand some of the little secrets that the world knows.

Second, some social experience is still shallow, or dull-witted people.

The act of pretending to be rich will indeed be influenced by the idea that people who pretend to be rich are really rich.

But over time, people with shallow social experience, have seen more people and things.

often to this pretend to be rich, doubly hateful, because they will feel cheated.

Because they will feel cheated, this feeling of being cheated, will be transformed into a kind of anger.

And the result of being worshiped by people with dull minds is that they are influenced by them.

In other words, people who pretend to be rich, in the end, pretend to be rich, can only let dull-minded people recognize their value.

The majority of people who understand and have some life experience will only look down on their behavior.

At the same time, coupled with their debts to pretend to be rich, but can not get rid of the impact of this behavior on them.

The more they pretend on the surface, the more they dare not pretend, the poorer the actual life, and the more they dare not say poor.

So, on the contrary, those who pretend to be poor?

They see through the act of pretending to be poor and see through the nature of some people.

Will be selective and those who pursue fame and profit keep a distance, after all, they do not want to deal with the "poor".

On the contrary, they will establish deep feelings with those who value their character and ability.

At the same time to avoid unnecessary consumption, will use their money to improve themselves, and improve the material conditions of the many options.

This leads them to pretend to be poor, but more and more affluent.

Not only materially, but also spiritually.

So I want to use this example to tell my readers that

Once you start something, it's hard to stop.

People who make mistakes over and over again tend to make mistakes over and over again.

Those who choose the right one at the beginning will be clear about the meaning of their persistence.

This is why some people have been growing, even if frustrated, they will move forward in the right direction.

And some people.

The stupidity of twenty years old, by the age of thirty

will only be more stupid.

Third, from the understanding is mutual saying

Understanding is mutual, this is a sentence that can be said that everyone knows the truth.

Because the understanding is mutual, I understand you, you understand me, and we can have a good relationship.

A famous line from the movie "The Afterlife" has caused many people to become disgusted with such reasoning.

"I've heard a lot of truths, but I still can't live this life well."

However, this sentence many people are open to the same nonsense reasoning, is so simple?

Let's take a deeper look at this sentence, what is the real meaning of it?

First of all, understanding is mutual, but this sentence exists a major premise.

That is, why should I understand you?

Mutual understanding, first of all, is a concept and attitude that can resonate.

I understand you, you understand me, behind this understanding, is a kind of recognition.

Then the reason I understand you is that I want to recognize our relationship through understanding.

To define our relationship, whether we can be good friends, a couple, or just a greeting.

Or can we only be greeting passersby?

In human society, superficial relationships are a social necessity of necessity.

But over time, we also want to know people who we can trust, who can be there for us

who can be there for us in a spiritual sense.

But over time, we also want to know "real friends" who we can trust, who can be there for us spiritually, and not just for the sake of socializing.

Take away the quotation marks, and take off the guard.

Between people, each other is a harbor.

Each other is a lighthouse.

So, understanding is mutual, a test of friendship based on friendship.

And not just a rhetoric, a kind of emphasis on the performance of social relations.

Secondly, people's hearts can change.

Some people, when they are young, have many friends.

The older they get, the fewer people they like, because the more people they see through.

"The more people I know, the more I like my dog."

So the reason for this change, in its ultimate reality, is that

is the consequence of a lack of real understanding.

Because many relationships are superficially understanding and

But behind the scenes, there is a calculation.

So understanding is mutual, and that proves that the test itself

is also mutual.

So we can find that this statement is a kind of chicken soup for intercourse.

But in fact, it is a condition for the formation of social relations.

And the formation of such conditions is extremely demanding.

It is a condition that needs to be refined through time and needs to be sharpened through a life of great hardship.

Then I would like to share with my readers the following words, which are chicken soup, but actually, a kind of social warning

to share my experience with my readers and friends.

In our society.

In our society, many people say the right things and do the right things.

But in fact, they may not understand the meaning of their words and actions.

There is even a possibility that

They know, but they don't say so.

They know what they are doing is wrong, but they won't tell us.

They know they're hurting people, but they're draining their trust for profit.

They know they're hurting people, but they're milking their trust for profit.

They know they're harming, but they're milking people's trust for-profit and lining their own pockets.