These Are 4 Signs When Your Partner Is Cheating on You

Fuck You for cheating on me. Fuck you for reducing it to the word cheating. As if this were a card game, and you sneaked a look at my hand. Who came up with the term cheating, anyway? A cheater, I imagine. Someone who thought the liar was too harsh. Someone who thought devastator was too emotional. The same person who thought, oops, he’d gotten caught with his hand in the cookie jar. Fuck you. This isn’t about slipping yourself an extra twenty dollars of Monopoly money. These are our lives. You went and broke our lives. You are so much worse than a cheater. You killed something. And you killed it when its back was turned.”

― David Levithan, The Lover's Dictionary

Love is rare now, so are relationships. People often cheat with their partners, even if they get love and care from them.

Cheating is common. You need no reason to f*** over your love. Globalization made things worst.

When a partner is cheating with each other, they show certain kinds of behaviours. They behave weirdly. You ignore these indications, because you love your soulmate, but one day he will betray you if you don’t understand these indications.

1. He scrolls his phone when you sleep at midnight

If your partner is scrolling phone at midnight, after sleeping saying you “good night, honey” then it shows he is betraying you.

If you notice him doing these when you wake up at midnight. Be more cautious. Maybe he is trying to fool you, by sleeping same time as you speak. Keep your eye open and investigate more.

2. He makes excuses when he comes late home

Many cheaters do this. They are excuse gurus. They have a reason for every action.

Maybe he or she is dating him or her in the moonlight. Don’t ask directly. Call his teammate or office when he has left the office.

Keep watch on his timings. If you see high irregularity, speed up your investigation.

3. He behaves weird

If your partner's behaviour is changing like clockwork and he is behaving in an awkward manner, if he is trying to love you more or speaking so politely and with a sweet manner which is unusual; it can be a sign that he can dump you.

People change their behaviour when they live with 2 lovers, they make highly emotional trauma in their mind. They often try to hide their sin by taking care of you and speaking so nicely.

Their behaviour can tell you what is going on in their mind.

4. He blames you for everything in your marriage problems

“When people cheat in any arena, they diminish themselves-they threaten their own self-esteem and their relationships with others by undermining the trust they have in their ability to succeed and in their ability to be true.”

― Cheryl Hughes

He is blaming you for everything in life. If he fights with you on little things or he is creating drama to get out of the relationship, then it can be a sign that he wants to leave you.

Partners become violent when they get a better choice. They hate you to end up in the relationship.

Cheating is widespread because of the demise of value in the world. Do not get divested if you know that your partner is cheating on you. Make peace with your mind; it is not your mistake.

You can’t blame yourself for his mistakes. People often cheat and don’t respect values. Try to find out a plausible way out of it, and it will help you live life peacefully.

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