The world of adults is never easy, and those who go against the grain in the workplace are aggrieved!

Although the epidemic has not yet subsided, most people in the workplace are still on the move or planning to consider how to develop a side business. This year is likely to be a difficult one. Most ordinary people who don't have a mine at home or a mountain of silver, have to struggle. If you are not born with a golden key, you can only live in the world, you have to work hard and work hard every day to make a living. Whether it is good or bad, hardship is probably the norm, when it comes to the workplace, no job is not aggravating.

Today, we're talking about the grievances of the "workplace beauty" in "Dream of the Red Chamber" - the aunt-to-be, Hua Rui Ren.

She was the maid assigned to Bao Yu's room from Jia's mother's house. She was naturally the first-class maid in Bao Yu's room, ad managed the first and second-class maids in the house, as well as the younger maids and maids-in-law underneath.

Bao Yu's Yi Hong Yuan, in the whole Jia's group, is definitely considered a good department flowing with fat water, more people, fewer things, light work, master temperament is also good, more wonderful in the promotion space and prospects are also big. For example, there is the opportunity to be Bao Yu's aunt in the future, something that other maids in the young lady's house could never hope for.

Therefore, it is reasonable to assume that her job would not be too hard. But who knows, it is not.

Although there are several big maids in the house, such as Qing Wen, Mushu Yue, Qiu Yin, Bichon, and Qixing, as well as small maids outside, such as Jia Hui and Zhaer, there are quite a few people, Raider alone has already taken up half of the sky in Yi Hong Yuan.

The masters, maids, nannies, and wives all know that they can't do without Raider in Yi Hong Yuan. Her ability and performance are unanimously recognized by all.

However, this external recognition does not mean that her life in the Courtyard is as good as a fish in the water or as glamorous as it could be. A slave is always a slave, a clerk is always a clerk, and no job under the sun is not condescending. This is also the case with Raider, who endures a lot of aggravation in the workplace, even though she has had her share of merit and hard work.

One of the grievances suffered by Raider: was being publicly abused by her nanny for no reason

In her capacity as the 'eldest sister' of Yi Hong Yuan, if she was publicly abused by other more respectable maids for no apparent reason, and in extremely harsh terms, I am afraid that not only would she have been aggrieved, but she would have been ashamed of herself. This was the case with Bao Yu's nanny, Sister Li, an elderly woman who had some face in front of Jia's mother, who once embarrassed her in public. See the original article.

Sister Li ...... scolded her: "Little whore who has forgotten her roots! I lifted you, and now I'm here, and you're lying on the bed in a big way, ignoring me even when I come. You only want to make up foxes to coax Baoyu ...... You are just a hairy maid bought with a few stinking pieces of silver, and you are a drain on this house. The best thing is to pull out to match a boy, see you still demon like coaxing Bao Yu not coaxing!" The first thing she said was that Sister Li was only angry at him for lying down, and she had to tell him that she was "sick, just sweating, covering her head, so she didn't see your old man" and so on. Later, she only heard him say "coaxing Baoyu", "makeup foxes", and said "match the kid", etc., can not help but feel ashamed and aggrieved, can not help but cry.

During the festive season, Sister Li shouted and scolded her for "forgetting her roots", "a little whore", "a fox in make-up", "bought with a few taels of silver ", "dragged out to be matched with a boy", "demon-like", every word was insulting and offensive, not to mention that the young masters and young ladies like Bao Yu, Dai Yu, and Bao Qi heard them, which made her face look bad, even the big maids, little maids, and maids in Bao Yu's house heard them. The maids and maids heard it, and she couldn't get down on her face, and she had to manage these underlings later, and it was hard for others to be convinced of her, so how could she manage these subordinates in the future? Not to mention that Sister Li's words might also be pointed out and spoken about behind her back by these people.

As for why Sister Li scolded her, it had to do with the fact that she had lost money playing cards. It is not once or twice that Sister Li has lined up Bao Yu's people, and probably Raider suffered many times. The most important thing to know about this is that it's not just a matter of time, it's a matter of time.

---- just as he lost money today, angry at people.

The fact is that you can find a lot of people who have been in the business for a long time. This time, she was the "punching bag" for this Sister Li.

The second aggravation suffered by Raider: was being kicked and beaten by Baoyu in public

This time, in front of a group of maids in Yi Hong Yuan, she was kicked by her master, Bao Yu, by chance, but also by necessity. When Bao Yu returned to Yi Hong Yuan after getting wet outside, he called the door for half a day and no one opened it, so it was Raider who went to the door to watch it. But she didn't expect it to be Baoyu who knocked on the door. She didn't expect it to be anyone else but Bao Yu, who was used to joking around with the maids. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you're doing. You didn't know that Master was back." Now she was really in trouble. The first thing he did was to call the door and ask for help for half a day.

The first thing you need to do is to get a few kicks out of the person who opened the door, and when you open the door, you don't see who it is, you just think it's one of those little girls, so you lift your leg and kick her in the ribs. The company's main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public. The girl's legs were kicked in the ribs, and Baoyu scolded her, "Nasty things! I'm not afraid to make fun of me."

The good-tempered, good-natured Jia Baoyu scolded his subordinates, a rare occurrence in a thousand years, and who knows, it was Rui Ren who ran into it.

This time, although it was an extremely fortuitous incident, Raider did suffer greatly, and "in front of many people, shame, anger, and pain, and was really at a loss," indeed, she lost both face and face, and suffered internal injuries, resulting in vomiting blood.

Although she knew that Baoyu did not mean to kick her at ease, she had to bear the consequences. As she said herself, she was the one who started the whole Yi Hong Yuan, whether it was a big thing or a small thing, whether it was a good thing or a bad thing, she was always the one who should be responsible.

The reason she did this was not only to be able to remain in the YI Hong Court, but also to save people like Sister Li from scolding her for her frivolity, and in the end, to put up with this moment for her future, hoping to bet on a good ending in the future.

The third grievance suffered by Raider: going home to visit her sick mother with dignity and glory

This time, the grievance appears to be a glorious one, but it is a great humiliation. This was when Raider's mother was very ill and she went home to visit her. When Raider went back to her own home, in Phoenix's eyes, it was not her Raider's home, but someone else's. Not only was she not allowed to use her family's bedding and other supplies, but she also had to ask her family to avoid her and stay in the inner room.

The first time I saw her, I saw that she was wearing a few gold hairpins and beaded bracelets on her head, which was gorgeous, and I also saw that she was wearing a peach-red silk jacket with silver mice, a green onion-green gold paneled embroidered cotton skirt and a green satin grey mouse coat.

The purpose of this is certainly not to take care of her but to showcase the Jia family's style of dressing and decency, as well as her competence and compassion for her subordinates.

The first of these is to show that the House of Jia is a very good and decent place to live and that she is capable and compassionate. The fact is that you'll be able to get a lot more than just a few of these. He also instructed Zhou Rui's family, "You naturally know the rules here, so there is no need for me to instruct you." Zhou Rui's family agreed, "I know all of them. When we go there, we always ask their people to stay away. If we stay there, we must ask for one or two other rooms."

Her mother was very ill and she was afraid that she would not survive. Although Raider is a servant, she is also a filial daughter, and although she is still smiling in front of Madam Wang and Feng, how can she not feel sad inside?

The woman's mother is very ill, but her masters are still there to tell her how to make a show of it, to show people outside. The fact that she is a filial daughter, dressed up like this to go back to see her mother for the last time, can she not feel aggrieved and sad?

She is considered a successful and successful maid in the Jia household. But even so, she has endured so much in her career that most people should be able to relate to or empathize with the current discomforts. Finally, although Jia's house in Dream of the Red Chamber was not a real workplace, it is still very similar to today's workplace. So, for those who are working, there is still enough "resilience", so don't be sad, sort out your experiences, move forward calmly, and implement your next plan.