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The true love first kiss...?

What is true love first kiss?

By AbikaPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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The true love first kiss...?
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How many of us can really say we have experienced true love first kiss? The lucky few that have experienced this, in my mind unnatural phenomenon, speak about the magically things only heard of in movies, and storybooks. And the fairytales only seem to layer it on thick with the love at first sight and fluttering hearts as they describe the experience. This leaves us, the ones who are yet to experience it, wondering what the heck are they talking about? And more hoe the hell can I get to feel what they just felt?

Is true love just imagination or is it real?

Now imagine yourself ten years down the line, going head over heels and raising your leg as you kissed the love of your life. Now, this has got to be some kind of witchcraft. But think back to the first time you say this person did you experience all the things you heard and read about?

For example, the look and laughs share between Cinderella and The Prince as they talked during they conversate at The Grand Ball. Or maybe it was more? Like the scent, the temperature around you, the sparkles flying across the sky that only you can see?

What is "True Love First Kiss", do we have it?

But what really is this "True Love First Kiss"? Did the books and movies just make it up to mess with the minds and give women an impossible task? If this is worth any constellation I do believe that true love the first kiss is real. There are many real stories mostly on wedding days. Phrases like "Love at first sight", "Love at first kiss" and "true love" comes up a lot, a whole lot. But those words only come after hearing about all the not so lovely dove dream stories.

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The two characteristics that "True Love will always have.

The most interesting stories always start with I thought he/she was ugly, or she was my sisters friend or even I never gave him/her the time of day. It sounds more like Shrek or The Ugly Duckling and those are awesome stories. Nevertheless, real true love can be measured only by a few characteristics.

1. The heart, mind, and body only react to that one person. Believe it or not when the heart, and by heart, I mean head, has found it alternate it only responds to that one person. You may deny this all you want, but there is nothing like this feeling. The way I think of it is For every Adam there is an Eve. Meaning every man has his woman.

2. You feel at your strongest and most vulnerable with this person. Love makes you many things, but the two best things are its will to strengthen and make you submissive. If you have not felt like this all at once then you have not felt true love. If you remembered the story of Fiona. She was strengthened to reveal herself to everyone after she submitted to the love she had for Shrek. Even Shrek submitted to love and finally found peace in his own way with Fiona.

My conclusion

True love first kiss is not just a made-up fairytale to make women expect certain things. It is a natural phenomenon that occurs between two individuals. Their connection is like no other, in fact, one man refuses to marry again after his wife died. He said, "no one else can relace the love of his life, because on one else is like her".

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Abika

I started writing because it was my way to vent. Now I absolutely enjoyed writing and sharing.

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