The Common Rule

The natural approach is and always will be the best way when shooting your shot brothers! Every Luv guru has the answer to it all. The Alpha Male textbook 101 philosophy is what I call it. Saying exactly what you think she wants to hear, when at the end of the day, she just wants you to approach in your fullest and pure masculinity. Another way of being real!

Now there are various approaches one could use. The key is being natural. Whatever you do, ask a question that will require more than a one-word response! Even sending over a server with the request to offer a drink of choice will give a response one way or the other. She will give eye contact, or not even acknowledge you at all. This is the easiest sign to pick up on but men still fumble this approach. Some don’t even come over after the drink and others stay too long. Simple, introduce yourself, express your interest and be gone! Men always try to convert this into a instant date after buying one drink!

Chances are she could be waiting on other friends or even meeting someone for a date. The mission is to make an introduction and leave! Pay attention to her body language is key! Besides, if she is meeting a date, chances are they aren’t serious! What kind of a dummy would let her come to a place alone?

Stay away from “pickup” lines! I have never used pickup lines a day in my life! Take advantage of the atmosphere and mention something about the place in particular when coming over. Again, her response is key! Even if she rejects you in any form or fashion, it’s not personal and keep it moving. There is more makeup, short dresses and high heels in a day’s time.

If she is entertaining your approach, remember to keep it simple. Stay away from rattling off what you do for a living or how much money you make. A woman looking this good will be approached by a thousand men claiming to be an Alpha Male, trying to win her over. Win possibly the only thing you have to do is remain in your positive masculinity, which will set you above the rest.

As you can tell by now, I’m a little turned off by the term Alpha Male. I performed within my masculinity. This allows me to acknowledge when something or someone isn’t for me. So if she is giving one-word answers to my questions, my radar tells me to move on. When a man trying to prove his Alpha-ness will miss the signs and continue to run his mouth.

In all dating situations, the Alpha Male runs his mouth, when the man of true masculinity that always comes through in a time of comfort or compassion, displaying integrity and commitment! These are the things you are trying to show her in your five-minute introductory scene and leave her with nothing more.

Flashy money will always keep the wrong type of woman entertained. Your mission is to display that flashing money is not the move of a sound man. Yes, it is important to have money, but understand the manner of displaying is very important. Hopefully this quick thought will guide you into a natural approach to any woman you find attractive. There is no “cookie-cutter” method to any woman or situation. These are guidelines to help avoid the swipe left, swipe right mentality that so many have consumed today. I have two sons and my goal is to teach them how to be respectful and channel their masculine self and respect women!