The best way to support yourself after the age of 30

Michelangelo's sculpture "David", known as the masterpiece of the Renaissance, once shocked the whole of Europe.

Someone asked him, how did "David" come about?

Michelangelo replied, "Just get rid of the part that doesn't belong to it."

Only by removing excess decoration can outline the beauty of simplicity to the extreme.

Life, like sculpture, always requires us to make a choice between trade-offs.

After the age of 30, the best way to enrich yourself is to eliminate the complexities in your life in time and adjust your life to a "minimalist" mode.

The relationship is minimalist, breaking the disturbance

I have seen this sentence: "It is character to be alone, and a clean relationship is self-cultivation."

Come to think of it, it is.

In the past, I blindly expanded the circle, and I would go to every "office". When I met a great person in the same industry, I wanted to get close and add WeChat.

In fact, if you are not very good yourself, no matter how many people’s WeChat accounts are added, it can’t help you.

People who are over 30 should understand: the bigger the circle, the more disturbed the heart; although the circle is small, it is good to be clean.

Some time ago, the minimalist lifestyle of old drama bone Chen Daoming was on the hot search and was hotly discussed on the Internet.

It turned out that Chen Daoming prefers to stay at home alone, read, practice calligraphy, paint, accompany his wife to do handicrafts, and make candy for his daughter.

He gradually reduced his work schedule, and slowly avoided the disturbance in the circle, away from the crowd, away from the lively, and lived the minimalist life he longed for.

Talking about his views on life, Chen Daoming said:

"When people's hearts are messed up, everything is messed up. The best way to live is to be content with loneliness and not stick to fame and fortune."

People over 30, after meeting all kinds of people, you will find that real friends are not much more expensive.

As a saying goes: "Mediocre people fill the void with excitement, and excellent people achieve themselves by being alone."

They seem to be out of tune with this world, but they are actually real powerhouses.

Smart people never waste time on ineffective social interactions.

Give up those useless social connections, improve yourself, and your world will become bigger.

From now on, let's make it a good habit to clean up our circles regularly.

People who are no longer in contact on WeChat will be decisively deleted; fake social events, do not have to go; group chats that you are not interested in, leave immediately; meaningless dinner parties, resolutely push.

Instead of wasting energy in useless human relations, it is better to save time and cultivate yourself.

This is how life is. If you want to be with smart people, you have to be smart; if you want to walk with excellent people, you have to be good.

Only when you become stronger will the world treat you kindly.

The energy is minimalist, the complex is spared

Do you feel this way?

Once you swipe your phone, you can't stop at all, swipe a short video for a while, and two hours have passed; eat melon for a while, and an hour has passed...

Our energy is easily entangled and distracted by these irrelevant trifles.

Cartoonist Cai Zhizhong said: "Every piece of wood can become a Buddha, as long as the excess parts are removed."

Remove the superfluous parts and leave the most important, the road to success, in order to show it more clearly.

Really smart people know how to focus on what's important.

At the end of last year, the recent situation of 54-year-old Hong Kong sister Zhu Jieyi was exposed on the Internet, causing everyone to envy.

As the runner-up of Miss Hong Kong in 1989, Zhu Jieyi entered the entertainment circle.

At that time, Zhu Jieyi had continuous resources, and she successively appeared in film and television dramas such as "Swordsman in Tomorrow" and "The Nine Stars Announcement".

Although there are a lot of works, Zhu Jieyi has never won enough fame.

After several years in the entertainment industry, Zhu Jieyi saw her bottleneck.

Since then, she has started looking for important things that are worth her energy.

After some deliberation, Zhu Jieyi chose to quit the entertainment industry in 2000, and worshipped Wang Wuxie, a master of ink painting, as a teacher, and devoted herself to her favorite painting career.

Zhu Jieyi's painting career has developed very smoothly. She has held exhibitions and published albums, and her works have been collected by Ningbo Art Museum, Prince Kung's Mansion in Beijing and Sun Yat-sen Memorial Hall in Singapore.

The success of her career has allowed Zhu Jieyi to gain a lot of wealth and successfully become one of the famous single rich women in Hong Kong.

Compared to her days in the entertainment industry, Zhu Jieyi said frankly:

"Abandoning the complicated and focusing my energy on the worthwhile things, my life has undergone earth-shaking changes, and I live a more comfortable and fulfilling life."

Experts know how to simplify complexity, aim at the essence, and hit the bullseye.

Just like the painting technique - line drawing, you only need a few simple strokes of ink lines, without any color, and the charm will appear on the paper.

After the age of 30, the high-end match is to know how to use the "line drawing" technique to manage your life well.

Minimal mentality, free from worries

I have heard a saying: "If you don't trouble yourself, others will never trouble you."

Many times, troubles are found by themselves, and if they are emptied in time, they will continue to consume you.

The age of 30 is a watershed in our life from innocence to maturity. Only by knowing how to clear up our troubles in time can we fly higher and go further.

I saw such a story.

There is a young man, although she has a stable job and her parents are alive, but she always feels that she has endless troubles, and she is worried and unhappy all day.

One day, when she met a wise man, she expressed the confusion in her heart, hoping to get enlightenment.

The wise man smiled slightly and said:

"In the secular world, wine ponds and meat forests, human dances in the red dust, and famous locks and locks, everything is tempting and confusing people.

"If you want to move, you will be moved, and you will naturally be troubled.

"Wins and losses, glory and shame, ups and downs, the more you care, the more painful your heart will be; on the contrary, the more you give up, the more peaceful your heart will be."

The young man nodded, if he understood something.

The next day, she met a philanthropist.

It is said that the philanthropist once earned a lot of money, but then donated the money to poor mountainous areas.

Now, she lives happily.

The young man told the philanthropist his confusion again, hoping to find the answer from him.

The philanthropist said: "I had the same pain as you. But since I learned to love others, the pain in my heart disappeared.

"Love is an oar given to us by God, it can ferry us out of the sea of ​​misery. Only those who have love in their hearts can create ripples of infinite happiness in the echo of love.

"Sharing the pain of others can relieve your own pain; giving your own warmth will also reap the warmth of others. This is the magical power of love."

At that moment, the young man suddenly became enlightened.

It turns out that excessive desire and selfishness are the root causes of troubles.

If you don't get rid of troubles, there is no chance for happiness.

And the best way to clear your troubles is to plant love in your heart.

As the saying goes: "The one who loves out loves to return, and the one who is blessed is blessed."

Give love, and you will receive more love; share happiness, and you will receive more happiness.

People who truly live a transparent life know how to use love to clear their troubles and reap a more fulfilling and happy life.

Bi Shumin says:

"Only by placing all of one's body and mind in the best state, can a person become a soft cotton yarn, embrace the world full of holes and twists and turns, and weave a wonderful and splendid life."

Indeed, life is a process of eliminating the complex and simplifying it, removing the rubbish and saving the essence.

The best way to enrich yourself after the age of 30 must be Su and Jane.

The relationship is minimalist, the disturbance is cut off, and the energy is more abundant; the energy is minimalist, the complex is abandoned, and the mentality is more peaceful; the mentality is minimalist, the trouble is free, and the life is happier.

For the rest of my life, I hope you and I can unload the burden of life in time, adjust life to a "minimalist" mode, and live as you like.