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The 10 Most Common Reasons Why Men Stop Texting You After A Few Days

You keep wondering what's wrong with you

By Happy Life OfficialPublished 2 years ago 8 min read
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You are dating a new guy, and things seem to be going well.

You start to think that he might be the one this time.

A few days pass, and everything is fine.

One day the guy stops texting you out of the blue. You hold your breath and wait for him to respond at night.

You start making silly excuses to justify his behavior.

However, after several weeks and the man hasn't responded, reality hits you hard; He has disappeared, like the other boys!

You keep wondering what's wrong with you.

Is there something you always do wrong?

Don't stress too much.

If the guys stop texting you in a few days, it's his loss.

Also, you are adorable and charming.

In case you're wondering why men stop texting you within a few weeks or days,

1. Guys back off when they're not serious.

When you've been with a guy for several weeks, and things start to heat up, as a woman, you'll begin to wonder where this relationship is going.

You will start to try to clarify your intentions.

Perhaps when you hang out with guys, they are interested in you, but not enough to stick around for long.

They are there to have fun.

It's a cruel thing to do, but that's the nature of boys.

If you start mentioning your intentions, you scare them away. It's funny how guys take the cowardly way.

They don't know how to tell you because they feel bad.

Therefore, they remove the shortcut and stop texting you.

Don't wallow in self-pity because all guys tend to disappear with you.

The time will come when you will find the right person for you.

2. Guys, stop texting when you're a side girl.

You probably thought you had found the right person this time.

Unfortunately, you didn't dig deep to determine if the guy is single.

When things get serious between you, he starts backing off, and texting back becomes a problem.

This could mean more than just "busy." Guys don't know how to multitask; they are easily caught cheating.

Guys can't handle two girls simultaneously without missing the point. If he sees that his girlfriend finds out, he will stop being with you immediately.

If he has had a series of breakups, he should know that they take him for a ride. It hurts to hear this, but that's second nature to most guys.

3. Guys, stop texting when you get ahead of yourself.

Are you the type of person who gets excited about a relationship?

If you've only been on two or three dates and already plan to bring personal things over to his house or call your parents to introduce him as your fiancé, that's a complete turnoff.

Most guys want to take things slow; They prefer to take their time to get to know their partner better.

Most men will tend to back off slowly and stop texting you often if you get too aggressive. When they do, they get lazy.

Eventually, they will stop texting you, and there is nothing you can do about it.

If you can help it, stop getting ahead of yourself and enjoy the happy times when you can.

4. You are too available

Guys like to chase women; That is its nature.

If you become too available to him, he will quickly get bored. Men are strangely attracted to women who are not available.

When a guy is texting you, and you reply after 30 minutes or so, this will get you hooked on any guy.

When he is too available, he is waiting on his phone for text messages from him. When you're busy with your life and a new guy shows up, please don't make him the center of your universe.

First of all, he was attracted to you because you are an interesting person with a complex and varied life.

Guys get bored quickly, and sometimes you may have no idea what caused their boredom.

5. You talk too much

Women love to talk; that's what makes them unique.

However, when it comes to a first and second date, you should keep your words to a minimum and enjoy the date.

When you spill all the beans at once on your first date, you can be sure that anyone will stop texting you.

Most guys talk less. Therefore they need you to continue the conversation. Get involved in a way that doesn't reveal too much about yourself. If you can, let him speak.

If you have been dating a guy for a few days, the texting stops. You may be giving too much information on the phone or texting him too often.

No man wants to read a novel about you in text or receive a thousand texts in a second.

You will probably forget what you have read after reading a few lines of the message.

You can't blame the guy for leaving you. Avoid texting too much, even though we live in a world where texting is used frequently.

6. You are not in the relationship

Some guys are naive when it comes to romance and texting.

You can flirt with a person over text, and he may have no idea what you mean.

Texting a person while flirting with them is not sending the correct message correctly.

Guys like to hear that flirtatious tone. So, you better call when you suspect your man has no idea that you are flirting with him via text.

Some clueless guys may interpret texts as moody or cold and thus stop texting you.

No man would want to pursue a woman who seems uninterested in romance. Let your man know your intentions before he stops texting you.

7. You are a target

Some men have low self-esteem, and the only way to feel better about themselves is to get a girl who will play hard to get it.

This guy is there to take you for a ride. He is not interested in you, but he will continue the romance until he gets what he wants from you.

This isn't kind, but it's true.

When a man's ego is down, having sex with a hot girl will make him feel better.

He will text you as much as you want until he gets what he wants, then the texting will stop abruptly.

Beware of such men; you are a means to an end to them.

They boost their ego when they get sex from you, and then they leave without saying goodbye.

If you've met such a man, don't be surprised why he stopped texting you. They are always looking for the next target, even with someone.

You're better off without these guys. If he stops texting you, don't worry about it.

8. Guys stop texting when they're afraid of commitment.

You've been enjoying dating, and the sex is good.

Things are working out for you.

However, when you start asking about the relationship, the guy becomes vague.

He dodges any emotional texts from you and avoids answering any relationship-related questions you ask.

You must stop the relationship immediately before you get attached more. If you don't, this guy will eventually stop texting you.

You don't want to get involved with a man who is there to have fun. Unfortunately, those men are very romantic and funny.

However, they will never be good husbands or fathers.

They will fade when things get lopsided in the relationship.

They have no decency or pity, and their way of saying goodbye is to stop texting you. Don't wallow in self-pity.

9. You are too good for him

Sometimes men feel intimidated by a woman who is out of their league. This is fine, but it shows that she is not a confident man.

No woman should be around a man who suffers from low self-esteem.

You may have more money than him; maybe you come from a wealthy background, and that's why his self-esteem is suffering.

The boy may also have deeper problems.

Therefore, he must not stay to find out. If he continues to cling to that man, don't be surprised when he stops texting you one day.

He will drop off the face of the earth to prevent it. Such men can be controlling or abusive in a relationship.

If he stops texting you, don't stress or try to reach him. You're better off without such a man.

10. He is married

We live in a world full of wonder and mischief.

Some men hook up with a woman and don't say they're married.

You will think you have found the perfect man as he is well-groomed, he knows his moves, makes you smile, and gets you back.

Such men can live a double life. Most of them always conduct business far away.

Therefore, they will require traveling from time to time.

These men are romantic, charming, and lovable.

Things will be fine for a few days until it wears off and I stop texting.

Once the texting stops, you will have no say in the relationship.

The good thing about this is that you don't waste time with a person who doesn't appreciate you.

Don't overanalyze the situation by talking to your close friends and trying to find a remedy.

Get over the problem before you spend a lot of time worrying about nothing.

If you keep texting a guy who has rescued you, he won't help resolve the situation.

With these few indicators, you now know that there is nothing wrong with him. Whether the guy is vaguely texting you or not, move on, it's his loss.

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