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Ten List Of What To Do And What Not To Do In Relationships - To Him or Her

Most folks who are intimately involved someone beyond the infatuation stage know that relationships are sort of a rollercoaster ride.

By Vincent OtiriPublished 3 years ago 4 min read
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Ten List Of What To Do And What Not To Do In Relationships - To Him or Her
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When things are good, they're very, very good. When things are bad, they're very, very bad. As a relationship coach, I even have developed Top 10 Lists—one for men and one for ladies on 10 things to try to to and to not neutralize relationships.

MEN

DO

1. Just hear your partner without offering advice.

2. Trust and respect her.

3. Treat her as an equal partner in your relationship.

4. Stay and support her when she gets emotional. She is trying to find understanding, not solutions.

5. Continue your courtship even after shes committed to you. still create romance in your relationship.

6. Do little things on a daily basis. a lady doesnt care if you call her at work to mention , i really like you or if you purchase a replacement TV for the front room . the tiny things are worth even as very much like the large ones.

7. Honor any agreements you've got made together with her .

8. Encourage her goals and direction.

9. determine what your partner would really like to try to to then roll in the hay together with her .

10. Say, Im sorry when youve done something you regret or that was hurtful to your partner, whether intentionally or unintentionally.

DONT

1. attend bed angry together with your partner.

2. attempt to offer advice or solutions when your partner just needs you to concentrate to her without comment.

3. Pretend to concentrate to her once you really arent.

4. Shut your partner out once you got to sort things call at your head. Just explain you would like space, you arent angry together with your partner which youll be back.

5. Criticize your partner, especially her appearance.

6. Yell at your partner as if you were her father.

7. Take every word she says literally. Women, when upset, tend to talk in absolutes, like You NEVER hear me; when what she really means is that you simply arent taking note of her at that point .

8. Allow jealousy to erode the trust, love and respect of your relationship.

9. Violate her privacy.

10. Forget special occasions.

Men and ladies have different communication styles, different needs and desires, and different relationship challenges. Learning these differences can assist us in strengthening the relationships we've now and within the future. John Gray began this revolutionary discovery in his book, Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus. The Womens List follows:

WOMEN

DO

1. once you want more quality time together with your man, make the time you are doing have as positive as possible.

2. Trust and respect him.

3. Stop nagging.

4. Allow your partner time faraway from you without giving him the interrogation .

5. Appreciate the small things he does for you and tell him so.

6. roll in the hay creatively and sometimes . Dont be afraid to initiate lovemaking.

7. Honor any agreements you've got made with him.

8. Support his goals and direction.

9. invite what you want! (Believe it or not, regardless of what proportion he loves you, he really cant read your mind.)

10. Accept his No gracefully, trusting that he would if he could.

DONT

1. attend bed angry together with your partner.

2. Insist he always share his feelings with you. Talking about feelings is more what women need.

3. plan to converse together with your partner during an honest movie or sporting event.

4. still concede what you perceive may be a lopsided relationship once you are at some extent of resentment.

5. Criticize him or put him down, especially the items he does.

6. Scold your partner as if he were a toddler .

7. Use sex as a prize permanently behavior or the withholding of sex as punishment for bad behavior.

8. Compare him to a fictitious character during a book, movie or soap drama and find him lacking.

9. Violate his privacy.

10. attempt to change him. Appreciate the person he's immediately .

There is such a lot to find out about satisfying relationships that your parents never showed you. Please dont become one among the statistics of divorce or perhaps worse, stay during a miserable relationship to honor your marriage vows while having numerous regrets about your life because the time ticks away.

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