friendship

C.S Lewis got it right: friendship is born when one person says to another: "What! You too? I thought I was the only one!"

Be Careful About Helping Others
Before I begin, I want to state that this may come off as a bit of a ramble for you should be careful about helping others. I was originally going to title this be careful about helping women but it's not as if men are any better. Also, before I begin, please remember that youtubers, tiktokers, the media and the like are trying to make money and tend to use click bait and make videos and articles to get your blood boiling. They will make the other political party or sex look as bad and dangerous as possible. Do not live your life by what they say, since many do not believe what they say and will say the most ridiculous stuff. It doesn't matter if they are right wing, left wing, come across as anti-male, anti-female or whatever. They are just trying to earn a profit so they will greatly exaggerate stuff. So, let's begin and remember this stuff I say only fits a minority of people and that's my disclaimer for this and my other articles.
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