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The Move the Universe Chose
I have not moved yet, but the universe is directing me and Sweetie Bird to a another place by ourselves, less expensive. I have faith this will happen by November. Clashes, different frequencies, and my empath abilities and my art are mine. My roommate now hates my music, my art, and my writings.
By Vicki Lawana Trusselli 6 months ago in Humans
Everyone Lied
THE PERFORMANCE WE ALL AGREED TO GIVE 🎭 The most widespread and least discussed social contract operating among human beings is the agreement to perform versions of ourselves that are more functional, more certain, more together, and more consistently okay than the actual internal experience any of us is having at any given moment. We walk into offices and parties and family dinners and first dates and parent-teacher conferences and holiday gatherings performing a character who has their life arranged in some reasonable approximation of order, and everyone else in the room is performing the same character, and we have all collectively agreed not to notice that we are in a room full of performers, and this agreement is so thorough and so old and so structurally embedded in the way social interaction operates that most people have been in it so long they cannot always distinguish the performance from the self 😤
By The Curious Writer6 months ago in Humans
She Loved Two Men
THE NIGHT EVERYTHING SHATTERED 🌙 The dinner reservation was for seven thirty and I was standing in the bathroom of a restaurant that cost more than my first apartment holding my phone in both hands like it was evidence in a trial I had not agreed to participate in, reading a message from my husband on one screen and a message from the man I had been in love with for fourteen months on the other, and the specific quality of that moment, the cold marble counter, the sound of someone laughing in the hallway, the smell of gardenias from the flower arrangement above the sink, is burned into my memory with a precision that I normally associate only with the worst and best moments of my life, and I understood standing there that this moment was going to be both simultaneously because any choice I made was going to be both a beginning and an ending and I was not ready for either and it did not matter that I was not ready because the moment did not care about my readiness 😱💔
By The Curious Writer6 months ago in Humans
5 Signs That He Loves You
At times, men can be incredibly secretive. In fact, recent research shows that men are among the most private beings when it comes to expressing their inner world. A typical man would rather sit quietly with his worries than share them openly, even with a close friend. This tendency often spills over into romantic relationships. Many men struggle to open up to women and say exactly how they feel. It’s not that they don’t feel deeply—they do. But vulnerability can be frightening, especially when the fear of rejection looms large. Because of this, women often find themselves trying to decode a man’s actions, wondering whether he truly cares or is simply being polite. This emotional guessing game is one reason many relationships take time to stabilize; both partners are slowly learning to trust each other with their hearts.
By LaMarion Ziegler6 months ago in Humans
A Real Guide to Apologizing to Friends
**Saying Sorry to a Friend ** Let’s be honest—apologizing to a friend can feel really uncomfortable. You might sit there overthinking everything, replaying the situation again and again in your head, wondering if it was actually your fault or if you’re just making a big deal out of nothing. Maybe part of you wants to reach out, but another part holds back because you’re worried about how they’ll respond. What if they’re still angry? What if they don’t forgive you?
By hassan khan6 months ago in Humans
HPV for Everyone (Part 1). Content Warning.
(WARNING: ACTUAL MEDICAL IMAGES OF HPV WARTS AT THE END OF THE FEATURE.) Parents, I bet no one has told you that birth control makes HPV more contagious. Didn’t know that, did you? Let’s talk about sex. This is not for parents alone. All human beings should want to know what I will share in this article and in the parts that follow. If you don’t identify as human, then this will not affect you. Unicorns are immune, too.
By Alexandra Grant6 months ago in Humans
Jada Pinkett Smith: Strength, Truth, and a Life Unfiltered
Some lives unfold quietly, while others are lived in front of the world. The difference is not always in what happens, but in how much people get to see. Jada Pinkett Smith has lived much of her life in the public eye, yet her story still feels deeply personal. It is not just about fame or success. It is about identity, relationships, and the courage to speak openly about difficult moments. Many people search for Jada Pinkett Smith to understand headlines or controversies. But beyond that, there is a story about growth, honesty, and the challenge of staying true to yourself when the world is watching.
By Muqadas khan6 months ago in Humans
He Sat There Every Night… But No One Knew Why
The first time I noticed him, it was raining. Not the loud, chaotic kind of rain that floods streets and forces people to run for shelter. This was different. Softer. Slower. The kind of rain that lingers in the air and makes everything feel heavier than it should.
By Shafi Khan6 months ago in Humans
I Stopped Dating Men My Age
I was 24 when I deleted every dating app on my phone and sat in my apartment, genuinely wondering what was wrong with me. Three years of situationships. Talking stages that went nowhere. Men who would text me at midnight but couldn't commit to a Saturday afternoon. Men who called me "too much" when I asked for clarity, or "too serious" when I said what I wanted. And every single one of them was between the ages of 22 and 27 — my generation, my supposed equals, men who were meant to understand me because we grew up on the same memes and graduated into the same broken economy.
By Shirley Oyiadom6 months ago in Humans
