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Stronger than passion, more than love: what does his hobby mean

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By Sahina BanoPublished 3 years ago 4 min read
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Hobbies are primarily a male phenomena. The truth is that a man needs to leave our world and enter his own, parallel one from time to time in order to release tension and gain strength. A woman is resting, taking a bath, talking on the phone with a friend, or watching the fate of someone else on television. In talking with us, most men readily relax. However, some men need to distract themselves with something "serious," so they start collecting stamps, shooting ducks, or fishing in the hole. Each male character has a different hobby.

Collector

This term refers to someone who collects stamps, coins, beer corks, matchbox labels, and so on. Outwardly dryish and controlled, but at heart - delicate and sensitive. He keeps all of his troubles to himself. The wife will change or die, the girlfriend will depart, and the collection will be his for the rest of his life. Gradually, his collecting love takes over his life, and everything else - family, work, friends - disappears into the background. Philatelists and numismatists are intelligent, eccentric, and eccentric; label makers and corkers are simpler and easier to interact with.

What does it feel like for us women? It is impossible for us to fully appreciate what can be hidden in a jumbled scrap of paper with a postmark or a weathered penny. Collecting goods has no meaning for us. Even the paintings in the collector's collection appear to most women to be dead and unattractive. And the gatherer is hesitant to convey his feelings for us. He will never touch his sweetheart with the same affection that he picks up a 1938 matchbox. Furthermore, the collector is hesitant to accept a woman into his world because he is jealous of her and does not want to share his passion with her.If you have chosen an avid collector as your partner, be prepared for the fact that a significant part of his inner world will be forever closed to you.

Music enthusiast

Obtains discs or cassettes with musical recordings. He is less withdrawn than the philatelist and numismatist, and he is frequently involved in show business. Emotional, intolerant, and frequently aggressive. Music both enchants and relaxes him.

What does it feel like for us women? No matter how selfish a music fan appears to be, a real person is always concealed behind his intransigence and whims, and you can find a method to approach him. At the very least, the music lover wishes for someone else to enjoy the music in addition to himself. And if you freeze with ecstasy while listening to Tom Waite's sorrowful epic about how hazardous it is to walk alone in a dark forest, your music lover friend would sympathise with you. Unlike a philatelist or a numismatist, he is not envious of his wife's collection and welcomes women into his pastime. True, it is risky not to share his musical interests with him; he will persuade, impose and swear up to a break in relations.

Bodybuilder

The typical example, which is displayed at numerous events, is characterised by nicely developed muscles, being harmless, non-aggressive, good-natured, and selfish. When they are not competing, some people swing until they drop in order to appear gigantic, cool, and terrifying. But you know that at his core, he is a fragile and sensitive young man! A bodybuilder almost usually lives a healthy lifestyle, does not drink or smoke, and goes to bed early.

What does it feel like for us women? It's lovely to have him in bed with me. "The bodybuilder boyfriend is even better than the picture in the magazine," one of my friends comments, "he is warm and you can touch him." If a bodybuilder does not consume steroids prior to a competition, his potency will be fine. And when one of her pals cynically asks, "What did you find in this "dumb pitching?" she always has an answer: "The future governor of California."

Hunter

A regular guy. Don't be surprised if the hunter enjoys life in all of its forms. He enjoys chasing animals, watching the sunrise, and picking lingonberries in the marsh. He also cooks well and eats well. Hunting has always provided a justifiable outlet for its innate ferocity. It is less harsh in everyday life than many others who do not fire at animals.

What does it feel like for us women? A hunter will toss the pelt of a dead wolf or bear at your feet, or bring a delectable hog limb or a swarm of wild ducks to your hearth, which he will gut and pluck with his own hand. Is it inhumane? But it's tasty. And the hunter is generally quite good in bed. He is patriarchal in family life, valuing women who care for the house and children.

Fisherman

Fishing is a peaceful way to spend time in nature. Aside from you, wife! Everyday life and his home irritate one man. Another type requires periodic seclusion, which a friend is unable to supply or is embarrassed to inform her about. If he is a natural lark who enjoys nature, he has a direct path to the lake with a fishing rod. Men who enjoy sport fishing are more daring than those who enjoy poking a lazy float, but less temperamental than hunters.

What does it feel like for us women? Use his absence to clean the house and talk with your mom and girlfriends. And so, when he returns, he will be peaceful and pleased.

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Sahina Bano

Freelance Blogger and Content Writer. I owe a website and write for my clients.

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