Signs That He’s Not Interested in a Love Affair With You

Signs that he's not interested - you've been on a romantic date, a few other dates have followed, but… but you don't know how things are, you don't know if you're together or not and even though you like him, you don't know what Does he believe you?

You want to believe and convince yourself that he likes you - that's why he invited you to the city, right? But don't fool yourself. If intuition tells you that he may not feel the same way you do, it may be so. So open your eyes wide and look for signs that he is not interested in you and a relationship with you, get rid of it as soon as possible before you wake up crying for pity and wondering "what went wrong" (what's wrong, for usually, it's just that he's either not looking for a relationship or he didn't think you were right)!

Signs that he is not interested in a relationship with you:

He tells you "let's just have fun and see where we end up" … Well, in 98% of cases, you won't get anywhere! The man was very sincere - he said he just wanted to have fun, right? But do you think that things can change over time?

He tells you "I've been through a lot, I can't start another relationship right now." He just told you he doesn't want a relationship with you!

In vain do you try to be understanding, you meet him only when he feels like it and you wait for him to become ready for a relationship! Don't apologize to him - if he liked you and fell in love, he would get over his dilemmas…

He doesn't call you often and he calls you in the evening. You don't hear about him for a day or two at all - then he calls you in the evening to go out and have some fun? Will you be briefly seen the same day or the night before, as if it's a last-minute decision to see you?

Would he rather send you messages - not call just to set up a date and not talk about other things? Did you only meet in the evening, when there are chances of getting to bed? Well, he's interested - but it's more about taking off your pants than getting to know you!

You have to call him. Yes, the days when the woman had to wait for the male's initiative are over!

But if a guy is interested and likes you, he'll call you, he'll invite you to town… If he keeps calling you and you decide to do it yourself - well, especially if things happen again ⁇

He tells you "it was nice, we'll hear from each other". And that's all! Don't ask when you can go out again, don't make a new appointment, and don't call or give a sign for a few days… In this situation, you better leave things like that don't complicate them by calling him, because he will probably feel compelled to go out with you, but then you end up in the same situation!

Do your meetings seem spontaneous and not very carefully planned? Do you think that he doesn't give much effort and calls you just to fill his time? Does he invite you to stay and "relax" and does that mean a date? He opens his eyes to other signs that he is not interested that he is only interested in sex…

A while passed, you went out several times, but you didn't know his friends! He seems to be reluctant to go with you somewhere with his friends! This generally means that you are not a future friend to him. If a guy likes you, he will want to meet you and his friends after about a month of dating!

Don't talk about intimate things. Or rather, he doesn't ask you anything very intimate, he doesn't seem excited to meet you! Maybe he's talking about himself, but when it's your turn to talk about your life, leave him cold…

If the conversation stays superficial, it's one of the first signs that he's not interested in a relationship! And no matter how sweet he is, no matter how much he compliments and "enchants" you, if he doesn't want to know really important things about you, you don't have and you won't have an important place in his life

You're talking, is he paying attention to anything else? On your breasts, on his cell phone, on other girls around you, on the wall behind you? "

Is hiding. Is his phone ringing and he is retiring to talk in private? Is your phone safe? Does he talk too little about his life? Do you go out in isolated places and when you are on the street, does it seem to be in a hurry? Is he looking around worriedly? Be careful not to wake up as a mistress without realizing it.

Are you trying subtly to get into your pants? Does he call you to him, make sexual allusions, insist, and make bold physical gestures? And if you tell him to take it easy, does it serve you either the reply "why don't you want us to feel good", or does it make you feel bad because you refuse him? Do you like "I'm too much in love to refrain"? If a guy is really in love, he won't insist, in any case, he won't rush you and wait patiently…

Did you have sex and he disappeared afterward? You don't even need signs that he's not interested in a relationship with you - if after having sex, you don't hear anything from him for a day or two and he has no decent excuse (accident, death, nuclear war!), you have fallen into his trap, unfortunately!

But accept the unpleasant reality and stop finding excuses or fooling yourself that "he has a reason not to call"! And if, somehow, he calls you after a day or two or more, be cautious, don't have sex with him if he sees you - because he can only keep calling you when he wants a fun evening, without that it means a relationship… If he keeps calling you and inviting you to the city - that doesn't show anything - you can be, for him, his daughter for fun evenings and that's it…

After reading this article, men do not come out in a very good light! And while all that has been said is true, it doesn't mean that all men are like that - in fact, most of them are ok guys, who deserve to be trusted, until proven otherwise!