Relationships

Relationships... we all want one, but we don’t know how or what we need for one and the first thing anyone needs is selfcare and worth in life. Many people go into relationships struggling to find love and affection and they think it’s his or hers partner that is the reason they can’t but it could actually be you!

Do you ever think? What am I doing wrong? Where can I build up? Do I actually love this person or is it just a time of life that You could be lonely and you just need someone there? You need to love yourself before anyone else you want to make sure that the both of you have 3 important things and they are TRUST, LOYALTY & HONESTY without these 3 vital things it’s not worth your time.

Once you develop these 3 things everything will fall into place and in your life you will face challenges but that’s also part of the whole system it’s not easy for anyone and it certainly isn’t going to be easy all your time with each other.

With Relationships it can be difficult if you don’t trust each other because you will think the other is doing things they shouldn’t and it will cause the break up to ruin over something that is small and that play a big factor in your life with us paranoia. You have to be willing to trust each person 100% you can’t keep thinking that it’s easy and that’s all it ever will be but you gotta keep moving forward.

Once your relationship is as deep as it gets your next thought will be kids! Do I want one? Are we ready? What’s our income like? You have to really think about these because if your having thoughts that it’s soon to have one then you really aren’t prepared, the only people who can tell you if your ready is the people in the relationship because you need to right mind set to raise a child but as times are now they bring adoption centres and abortion clinics which I’m 100% against the person should be fined a serious amount of money because there still taking a life unless it is a dangerous case or whichever for the mother for instance rape, child isn’t well, mothers smoking & drinking all the time. Another thing you need is a stable income life can be difficult without the money you and your family needs are the both of you working? Only the person in the relationship can sort that one out!