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Relationship Advice For Men

Little Unthought of Things are Important

By Timothy A RowlandPublished 3 years ago 5 min read
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Little Unthought of Relationship Advice for Men

You always hear the saying, “it’s the little things” when talking about just about anything. Well, the same is surely true when it comes to what you can do for your woman. So, I thought I would I write this post offering some relationship advice for men that perhaps, nobody thought to tell you and that you likely wouldn’t normally think of. We men concentrate so hard on trying to get the big things right, that we often forget the tiny things. In fact, we are bombarded with reminders about all of the major things that we should be doing for her, but the little things, not so much. It’s a shame too, because, it’s the little things that will usually mean the most.

Honestly, a lot of the tips and things that I will mention, could be applied even before you actually get into a relationship with a woman. However, if you are in a relationship with someone, then it becomes all that much more important. I will make this easy to read and understand, by using a bit of list format and break it down for you. Here we go.

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Little Relationship Habits Men Should Do

Cleaning Is Important

Yes, cleaning up is more important than you may realize. Even if your girlfriend is a messy person, it is still important to clean before she arrives. In fact, if she is a messy person, you may want to do some extra cleaning before she arrives, since she is likely going to mess things up even more while she is there. Okay, so what if you don’t have time to clean everything or you simply don’t want to at the time? Well, you don’t have to clean the whole place before she gets there, but, be sure to clean the vital areas. First, be sure to clean your room fairly well. Obviously, obstacles in your room can cause a bit of mood killer if things get hot and heavy. Also, it just looks more “adult” than having a messy room. You’re not a kid anymore… clean your room.

Second, be sure to clean your bathroom before she gets there. Yes, this means clean those shit stains out of the toilet and be sure to clean the bowl, seat, and lid. Now, when I say clean it, I mean use a rag and bathroom cleaner along with some clean water. Truly clean your bathroom, don’t just wipe it down. Pick up dirty laundry and put it in the laundry basket. Use the same kind of products and clean the bathroom sink while you are at it. Take everything off, clean it right, then put only what needs to be on the sink back. Everything else should be put away. Yes, she is going to come over and spread her stuff all over that same sink and you’ll be searching for an inch or two to set your stuff down while you brush your teeth or shave…but, that’s life. Clean the sink.

Thirdly, clean your kitchen. Yes, that catastrophe. It’s not hard, I promise. Be sure that the dishes are washed, dried and put away. Have the sink clear. Straighten the refrigerator. Mainly, the sink should be clear and the counters should not have evidence of your last weeks’ worth of activities all over them. Your kitchen should look like an adult lives there, even if you are still basically a big kid.

Set Things Up Thinking of Her

On the subject of cleaning, there are certain things that most men won’t do for their woman. This means that if you think of these things and do them, she’ll be surprised and probably appreciate it a lot. Perhaps the least thought of things by men is, be sure to put a pack of wet wipes on the back of your toilet. Yes, those little wipes that come of out what looked to be tissue boxes or packs. There is an unspoken thing that women go through and they need the wet wipes to help deal with it. Chances are that she probably has a small pack with her, but it would mean a lot to her, and shock her, if you thought of it too and left some there for her to use. Don’t mention them, just place them out in the bathroom for her to use discreetly while she is in there. The back of the toilet is probably the best location, but you can always place the pack on the sink as well. Mostly, just be sure to leave them in the bathroom in a location that she can easily see them. Go ahead and open the pack too, so that she doesn’t have to feel awkward that you’ll know she used them if she opens them. As a side note, if she goes home, you can always use the same wipes to clean yourself up after masturbation.

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Will Leave You with These

I don’t want to overwhelm you with too much to remember, so I will leave you with these tips for now. Be sure that you apply these and do them before the next time your girlfriend comes over. This one last tip should probably be so obvious that it need not be said, but I am going to mention it anyway. Part of cleaning before she gets to your place, is being sure to clean yourself too. Take a shower before she gets there. If you don’t have time to take a shower, be sure to clean the vital areas: arm pits, crotch, butt crack, and face. Not in that order though.

The most important part of this and any other advice or tips that you may hear, is to be sure to make an effort. Think about her and do something great before she even gets there. Make her feel better and help her time there to be more enjoyable and convenient, and not just naughty fun, but actually living convenience. You’ll both be happier and things will go a lot better. So, take this advice and run with it. Treat her great and be sure she treats you the same way.

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About the Creator

Timothy A Rowland

I’m an every day human Xennial from the United States. I have many interest. I just want to improve your life and maybe entertain you. Available for editing and LeadsLeap projects at: https://www.fiverr.com/greyhatcompany

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