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On Your Next Date

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By Gloria Michael Published 2 years ago 3 min read
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On Your Next Date
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Dates are agreed on meetings with a potential lover and you must make the most of your good times together. Your date will appreciate it when you're fully focused on them, so be sure to pay attention to these five essentials:

1: Come on time

When it comes to dating, there's nothing worse than showing up late for your hot date. It's never fun to wait for someone, but it's even worse when you're waiting for someone late. Don't make your date wait for you! It can be a sign that they aren't that into you.

Make sure that you get there on time, and don't keep him or her waiting! Don't be rude, either. You should arrive at the date location on time. If you're running late, it's okay to call or text to let your date know that you're running late. But no matter what, please do not be late for your date! If you are going to be late and don't have an excuse, then it's best if you let your date know in advance and plan accordingly.

2: Eating manners

Food is an important part of our culture, and it can be a great way to show your date that you're interested in them before you've even met up. When dining out together, don't rush through your meal; instead, take time to enjoy the tastes and textures of the dishes together. You'll also want to pay close attention as they eat because this will show them that their opinion matters. (This one is especially true if they're ordering something different than what you chose.)

Eating with your date is a great way to show them that eating is something you both enjoy and can do together. Make sure that whatever food you choose is something you both like, and don't try to force things just because they're on a date—if they don't want something, they'll let you know.

It's not just rude to talk with your mouth full, but it's also uncouth to spit out food! When you're eating with someone else, make sure you are being considerate of their space in the same way that they would be considerate of your space—you don't want to be sitting next to someone who is chewing loudly and smacking their lips together.

Please remember that when you eat with someone else, it is considered polite to use utensils and ask permission before eating something from their plate or bowl. Also, please cover your mouth when chewing the food so that saliva doesn't get into anyone’s food or drink.

3: Sitting manners

Don't sit down until your date does! This applies to all kinds of sitting—on the couch, in a chair, or even at a table. If they come over and sit down before they've been invited to do so (or if they just sit down on their own), this could be seen as impolite or disrespectful.

Sit up straight! Don't slump or slouch. This is especially important if you're sitting next to someone while they're eating—it's rude to let them eat around you while you're slumped over in their lap, not even looking at them!

4: Pay attention to your date

Listen attentively during dinner or drinks, and make eye contact with them often to make the other person know you're listening.

Your date needs to know you're listening, so don't let your focus wander. And pay attention even when the topic isn't romantic—asking about their work or hobbies can show that you enjoy spending time with them as a friend too.

5: Make sure your date is feeling good

A few tips to make sure your date is great. If you aren't sure about something, ask your date. Don't just sit there and say nothing—ask questions! They'll appreciate it more than you might think.

Pay attention to what's happening around you, so that you can sense if anything is going on that might make it awkward or uncomfortable for either of you.

You're on a date! This is supposed to be a fun time for you and your date, so make sure that you're both enjoying yourselves.

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