No one is doing any harm to you. If they do any harm to you, it is through your cooperation.

No one is doing any harm to you, if they do any harm to you, it is through your cooperation, so in the end you must be responsible, you chose it. You said, "my husband is hurting me. "but this gentleman is your choice, and in fact, only in this way can he hurt you. You want to get hurt, that's why you chose this gentleman or this wife.

You will be surprised to see people who continue to change wives, who are looking for the same type of woman over and over again. It's hard to find the same type of woman, but they can all find it, and then within six months, they complain again, and that complaint happens to be the same.

I have heard of a man who has been married eight times and has repeatedly arranged to find the same type of woman. Look at that point: the point is that he has some kind of mind, some kind of restriction. Under that constraint, only some kind of woman would attract him. A blonde, or a brunette-a particular woman will attract him. With a pointed nose, black eyes, or some other feature. He was always attracted to a particular woman, and then that woman began to do the same thing again. He was so puzzled that he thought he had changed a different woman.

You changed that woman, but you didn't change your mind! So your choice remains old, because the person who chooses it is old. It won't help, you'll still fall into the same trap. The color of the trap may have changed, the material of the trap may have changed, but the trap still exists, you will fall into it again and again, and then the same pain will occur again.

Group therapy is a way to understand what I've been doing to myself! "the great process. If you go a little deeper... It's something that no treatment group has ever been to, not even the original treatment group. But the Buddha went further and said, "if you choose some kind of parents, it is also your choice." "

See that point clearly. When you were hovering over there to be reincarnated, there were countless people having sex, but you still chose a couple, why? you must have some idea that it was your choice, and then you said, "my parents hurt me." "Why did you choose them in the first place, and then your wife, your husband. Do you think they hurt you? then society, who created this society, you created this society! It's not made out of nothing.

The beggars on the street did not suddenly appear for no reason. We created them. If you want to be rich, someone must become a beggar. When you see a beggar, you feel very sad. Who do you want to deceive? you still carry the idea that you want to be rich. If you want to be rich, someone will become a beggar. If you want to become a prominent figure of so-and-so, there are people who can't achieve that reputation. This is a competitive world, you do not want war, but you are violent, you are violent in everything, but you condemn war.

What is this all about? these people are violent people, war is just an excuse, their protest is just their violent expression, they are not really worried about war, they are using it as an excuse.

This society is created by you, and then you say that society should be responsible.

No one is responsible but you. This is one of the hardest truths to accept, but once you accept it, it brings a lot of freedom, and it creates a lot of space, because as this truth is accepted, there is another possibility that immediately opens up: "if I have to be responsible, then I can change, if I am not responsible, how can I change if I am doing this to myself, then it will hurt myself." But it also brings a new possibility-I can stop hurting myself, I can stop being miserable. "

No, not at all. Its purpose is to make them aware of the unnatural self, and then the natural self will automatically appear, and no one can bring it out. When the one disappears unnaturally, the natural one is found. The natural one was there all the time, hidden under the garbage. If you don't disappear naturally, you are natural. You don't become natural, you always are natural. How can a person become natural? all the "become" will bow to you and enter the unnatural.

If so, isn't it unnatural to try to be natural?

Yes, the effort to be natural is always unnatural, but to understand that unnatural is not an effort to be self, it's just to understand. It is said that you have been trying to squeeze oil out of the sand, and when you see that it is useless, you abandon the whole plan. See that you have been trying to get through a wall, and then hit your head, see it, you stop that attempt, you will start looking for the door.

Yeah, just like that.

If not, what is the main difference between natural and unnatural?

Nature is the gift given to you by the whole, and the unnatural is created by you-through teaching, classics, personality and moral law. Unnatural is what you impose on nature, and it is given by that man. Nature comes from God, unnature comes from yourself. Take away everything you impose on yourself, and God will burst out a thousand flowers in your existence.

Someone asked Jesus, "what's your basic message?" he said, "ask the bird, ask the fish, ask the flowers. "

What does he mean by "ask the bird, ask the fish, ask the flower" he is saying: nature!

My message is: let nature possess you and don't try to create any personality. All personalities are wrong and want to be without individuality. Do not create any personality, all personalities are false, do not become a personality.

And then slowly, slowly, you will see something rising from the deepest core of your existence, and that is nature, it has incomparable fragrance, it is good, it is never bad, it is not cultivated, it is not at all, so there is no tension, no anxiety, you don't need to maintain it.

Truth does not need to be maintained, only non-truth must be arranged, maintained, in need of a lot of care and maintenance, even so, they are not true, they can never become truth, and only truth can be liberated.