My Jealousy Pushed Him Away (Jealousy Has Ruined My Relationship With My Boyfriend)

It is not easy to deal with a break up and wondering "how to get my ex boyfriend back" every waking moment is surely enough to drive anyone to heartbreak point.

I know how awful it feels to be going through a break up -- especially when you are still in love your ex boyfriend but do not know what to do about it. Everything just seems so hopeless now, doesn't it?

But do not think that it is really the end of your relationship, okay? If you follow the five simple tips that I will be talking about later, I am pretty certain that your chances to get back together with your ex boyfriend are going to increase.

So many women do not succeed in winning back an ex boyfriend -- and if you have just broken up, it is not really your fault! So stop blaming yourself for failing to keep your ex boyfriend by your side. You see, no one ever handed you an instruction manual when you first fell in love, right? And no one taught you how to handle a break up. More importantly, you were never taught on how to get your ex boyfriend back after a break up.

So you see, while it is still not healthy to fill your mind with all those negativity, it is not your fault that things ended up the way they did.

If you want your ex boyfriend back then these five simple steps should help you achieve your goal:

#1 Get Rid Of All Negative Thoughts

Yes, push those horrible thoughts out of your head. Do not let them take control of your emotions. You have to absolutely stop feeling sorry for yourself because you are the only person who can make a difference now.

Destructive behavior will get you no where.

Right now, you have to be willing to stay strong and then focus on a plan to get your ex boyfriend back. It is quite impossible to get him back when you are not even thinking straight, right?

So make sure that you do not let depression take over because if you cannot keep your emotions in check and your mind clear, then it is going to be quite hard to get your ex boyfriend back.

#2 Accept That The Relationship Is Over

Yes, for now, you have to accept that the relationship is really over. This is going to be extremely difficult, but all the wishing in the world is still not going to allow you to go back to the past and change why the break up occurred.

Focus on the future, and what you are going to do to get your ex boyfriend back. Do not let your mind wander off into the past -- while the past is a known and comforting place to be in, your ultimate goal is to get your ex boyfriend back in the near future.

Start right now in laying the perfect foundation for both you and your ex boyfriend to rebuild the relationship again. For example, if you realize that there was some trust issues in the relationship, then focus on that.

#3 Do Not Pester Your Ex Boyfriend

I know how much you miss your ex boyfriend... But always remember that guys do not like it when girls become obsessive about them.

Even people who are in a relationship get annoyed when their partner constantly calls them up, right?

So what you need to do now is to give him time to realize that the break up might have been a mistake; give him time to actually think about you, and realize that you were actually one of the best things that ever happened to him.

He may begin to actually miss you and if you ruin it by calling or texting him every time you felt like it, then you may be setting yourself up for a tougher time in getting your ex boyfriend back.

#4 Become An Object Of Desire

Go get yourself some new make up, clothes or even a new hairstyle. If you have gained a few pounds, think about exercising and eating healthy from now onwards.

When you look good on the outside, you will feel good on the inside. And by feeling good on the inside, you will become confident. When this happens, you will become an object of desire to men -- and this includes your ex boyfriend.

#5 Do Not Rush Things

If you have followed my previous four tips, there is a high chance that your ex boyfriend is probably going to get in touch with you at some point.

Imagine how you are going to make him do a double-take, and his surprise when he sees the "new" you.

Remember that when your ex boyfriend sees that you are looking your best and that you have become confident, it will make him desire you. And if you limit your contact with him, that is sure to drive him crazy and make him wonder how is he ever going to get you back now.

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