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My Ex Boyfriend Hates Me But He Broke Up With Me (Why Does My Ex Hate Me So Much When He Dumped Me)

It hurts to have to say my ex boyfriend hates me but he broke up with me doesn't it? Well, this is certainly not a good situation to be in. You still love your ex, yet your ex hates you. Nothing can feel more painful than this kind of situation. If you're asking the question why does my ex hate me so much when he dumped me then you'll want to read every word of this article.

By Fatima MaciPublished about a year ago 4 min read
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Right now, your ex probably hates you; and it's only growing with time because you are doing some things that are not good! You may be trying your hardest to please your ex, and give him exactly what they want, but in doing this your ex only finds you irritating. Your ex thinks you are acting only out of desperation and that you only want him now that you can't have him. Thus, you are left without your ex taking you back. The solution? The solution is to know exactly what you are doing wrong so you can get your ex back...

Do you beg your ex? This just looks pathetic and makes your ex think you are the most desperate thing on the planet. Begging your ex only boosts their ego that you have stooped that low for them; but in the end will only amuse your ex for about two seconds before they move on to thinking you are just really low.

Do you excessively stalk your ex? Don't think they do not know that you are following them on all their online profiles, and in real life too maybe! There is obvious stalking as well, where you constantly call your ex, and show up where they have to be just to find out everything they are up to. This looks very creepy and its beyond desperate, it is grounds for a restraining order. That is exactly what your ex is thinking, that you have no concept of privacy and that you are dangerous probably.

Give your ex some space, stop contact altogether. Never again beg your ex, and then you will find an entirely different result! Your ex will be the one following you, calling you to find out what is going on. Your ex will be the one interested now, instead of having your ex hate you because of what you are doing.

How to Get Your Boyfriend Back After Your Breakup

It can be a challenging time after you and your boyfriend break up. You are not feeling or acting like yourself. You feel as though your life is out of control and there is emptiness without him. You want to get your boyfriend back.

Since your boyfriend broke up with you, rekindling your relationship might be a chore. Your boyfriend decided that he no longer wanted to be in the relationship and did not try to make things work. He just wanted it to be over. It is a lot easier to work on your relationship when you are still together, than after it is over.

However, you can get your boyfriend back even though he broke up with you. You must be completely sure that this is what you want. You also need to make sure you want him back for the right reasons. You must know before you try to get him back that it may or may not work out. You may be able to make up, but you also have to be prepared to move on. You may be able to reestablish the chemistry and connection that you once had. If you do not, you will know that you did the very best that you could to get your boyfriend back.

In order to get your boyfriend back, you want to make sure that you are emotionally stable. Your boyfriend is not going to be attracted to you if your feelings are not under control. Do not damage your relationship even more by contacting him when you are upset or angry. For instance, if he is thinking about you and you call him and are crying, yelling, or begging for him to come back, he may recognize that he did make a good decision by breaking things off.

Right now, you want to take your mind off of your boyfriend by focusing on yourself. Do not ignore your feelings. However, do not continue sitting around the house doing nothing and playing songs over and over that remind you of him. Get out and develop a new routine that does not involve him. Go out and have some fun with some of your friends. Do not let yourself go. Keep doing your hair, makeup and dressing nicely so you will continue to feel good about yourself.

Your chances of getting your boyfriend back will be better if you are staying busy and going on with your life without annoying him. More than likely, he will contact you again if you do not call, text or email him. When you do get his call, keep it short. Let him know that you have been busy. You do not want your feelings to show. You want to act as if everything is okay, and his calling does not excite you.

He will probably be a bit confused, and he may want to see you again. If he does, make sure that you are absolutely gorgeous. Do not let your boyfriend kiss or touch you. Give him a hug before you leave, but nothing more. If he still wants to be with you, this will get him going again. After this, you will be on track for getting your boyfriend back. However, take it very slow.

You can get your boyfriend back but you must play it cool. Go out and be the wonderful person that you are. Take care of yourself, so that you will feel your best. Be sure to give your boyfriend plenty of space. Since your boyfriend was the one that broke up with you, make him earn the right to be with you again.

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