Men who can accompany you to the old age have this sign

When a person really loves another person, there will be many worries in his heart.

Life is sea and sea, and years are in a hurry.

There are many people I met in my life, but few people really treat you.

Not all people will pour out their hearts to you, and not all feelings can grow old.

Only those who really love you will know you are warm and cold, understand your joys and sorrows, care about your feelings, and be willing to accompany you through spring, summer, autumn and winter.

The rest of your life is not long. Be sure to stay with someone who knows how to hurt you.

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Love is a kind of distress.

People always ask, what is love?

Once upon a time, we said that the seas run dry and the rocks crumble until we die; Now we are talking about one room, two people, three meals and four seasons.

But in the final analysis, love is not the so-called sweet words and vows of eternal love, but it must fall on those behaviors that are really good to you.

I once read an interview report.

The wife discovered the tumor during the physical examination, but fortunately, her condition did not deteriorate and she had an operation in time.

What is unsatisfactory is that his wife left behind the sequela of the operation, and his legs were always sore and unbearable every rainy day.

The husband felt sorry for his wife's affliction, and went to hospitals of all sizes.

Later, I got a way from an old Chinese medicine practitioner.

The old Chinese doctor said: "Find a few acupoints. According to this method, massage your wife's legs often, and the pain can be alleviated."

So, my husband went to the old doctor of traditional Chinese medicine every day and learned massage from him until he was completely proficient.

Then get up early every day and massage his wife for half an hour before letting her get up;

Before going to bed at night, I will give my wife water to soak her feet, and continue to massage after soaking her feet.

In this way, never stop, insist on more than 30 years.

During the interview, the reporter couldn't help but ask: "How did you persist for so many years? It's amazing! "

The husband smiled lightly: "I can't talk about persistence. I just feel distressed when my old woman's leg hurts. I always want to relieve her pain and share the pain."

In this simple sentence, there is no I love you, no so-called sweet words, but it reveals the deep love of husband to wife between the lines.

From the former wife to the present old woman, a word difference is the husband's lifetime oath.

There are always people who say that sweet words can't tell the difference between true and false, and they can't see through their hearts with tenderness and romance. How can we identify that he loves me?

In fact, love is very simple, it doesn't need to give gifts from luxury cars, and it doesn't need to spend every effort. To care sincerely is the true definition of love.

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People who love you are worth cherishing.

There is a saying: "When everyone cares about how high you fly, only those who love you care about whether you are tired or not."

In the eyes of those who care about you, when your world is covered with dark clouds, his world will rain cats and dogs;

When your world is sunny, his world will be sunny.

Such a person may not have so much sweetness, and there is no routine that makes you feel excited at your fingertips.

But he can understand your emotions, grieve for your sadness, and satisfy your joy.

This is the fate worth cherishing for a lifetime.

My friend Xiao Qiao works in Shanghai. He is usually busy and tired at work and has no time to fall in love at all.

Some time ago, relatives in my hometown introduced her to a boy with good looks and stable work, so Xiao Qiao tried to get along with her.

However, the two sides chatted on WeChat for nearly a month, but they failed to spark.

Xiao Qiao always felt unable to communicate with each other, so their relationship stopped at the last WeChat message.

Then, Xiao Qiao's current project went wrong one after another, and he was very busy.

Even more "it never rains but it pours", the landlord temporarily wants to take back the house originally rented by Xiao Qiao and asks her to move out as soon as possible.

Xiao Qiao has to find a house as soon as possible and deal with difficult work. His stomach trouble, which he hasn't committed for many years, is anxious to relapse again.

That day, Xiao Qiao was alone carrying the moving luggage and rubbing his aching stomach with one hand.

Just then, the blind date called.

Xiao Qiao was just trying to hang up after exchanging pleasantries, but at the moment he picked up the phone, he couldn't help choking and sobbed about the recent events.

After hearing this, the boy said nothing, so he asked Xiao Qiao's address and said, "Wait for me, I'll be right there."

When the boy arrived, he helped her to arrange the luggage for moving, took her out to eat, bought her stomach medicine, and told her to eat it on time every day.

Not only that, but the boys also help Xiao Qiao analyze the problems in his work with their own experience.

Xiao Qiao said: "You know, when I watched him comfort me and help me analyze my work, I felt less difficult and relieved a lot."

Some people come into your life suddenly, bringing a light to your gloomy life and saving you from the abyss.

He may look dull and wooden, but he may not be eloquent, but he is sad about your sadness, distressing your pain, reassuring you with actions and relaxing you with companionship.

As Tu Lei said:

"If a person really loves another person, there will be many worries in his heart.

I'm afraid that the other person is hungry, cold, unhappy and in trouble. "

True love is probably like this. There is a person who is not related to you, but always thinks about you, misses you and cares about you all the time.

I will rush to your company downstairs on a sudden rainy day and give you a comfortable and warm umbrella;

When you are not feeling well, you will be tucked away and carefully simmered with a pot of nutritious porridge to nourish your stomach;

……

In front of such people, you don't need to hide vulnerability, let alone pretend to be strong.

Just be your true self, and he will silently support you behind your back, give you support and accompany you to the old age.

Meet, must cherish.

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For the rest of your life, be with someone who loves you.

I saw a little test on the internet some time ago.

The girl called her boyfriend and said, "I saw a news when I first took medicine."

My boyfriend didn't react for a while and asked, "What news?"

The girl immediately became angry and said, "You don't love me at all. You don't even ask me why I take medicine. Is it uncomfortable?"

My boyfriend didn't react until he was speechless.

They all say that women's hearts are needles under the sea. You can't guess at all.

Think carefully, this test, which hides a careful machine, is just a girl's inner expectation that she wants to be distressed.

Because these instant reactions without thinking are all proofs of being loved.

On the other hand, the love falling apart in life is nothing more than that you want his distress, but he made a joke with you.

Just like a rainy day, you said, "I have a stomachache, but I still insist on going to work for a day", thinking that I can get his comfort and concern, but he said, "lie in the trough, then you are so powerful!"

What really defeats a relationship is never lack of money, distance, but care and love that never gets.

We are too old to listen to love. Who would be willing to live a lifetime with someone who doesn't care about himself?

The person who blames you for your troubles will never care if you are tired or ill.

The person who blames you for doing nothing and being unkempt all day will never understand your hard work and help you share half the points;

The person who blames you for not taking good care of your children and letting them touch you will never pick up a crying child at night, coax him to sleep and let you sleep;

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If you don't cherish you, don't keep it. If you don't love you, just turn around and leave!

A good relationship is to find someone who loves you, accompany you, guard you, give you warmth and strength, and make you strong.

The rest of my life is not long. I hope you can find someone who "stands at dusk with you and asks you that porridge can be warm", keeps company with each other, cherishes each other, looks back at the dim lights, and holds hands side by side.

Finally, I will share this passage from Venus with you:

"When my daughter grows up, I will tell her that if a man loves you to squeeze the bus, complains that you don't eat on time, always reminds you to drink less and hurt your health, tells you to pay attention to safety when coming home from work on rainy days, and sends funny text messages to coax you when you are sick ... Please ignore him.

You should be with someone who is willing to drive you, accompany you when you are sick, take you to dinner, pick you up after work, and tell you,' Quit your broken job, come home with me'. "