Love Guide - part 1

I love you but...

It is said that Love is patient, kind, it is not jealous, arrogant nor rude, that it doesn't seek its own advantage(its never selfish),it isn't irritable and it doesn't keep a record of complaints, then to add a little on these things mentioned love can never get tired or even cease being kind or patient then what is love apart from everything that's been unpacked here. Here's to a topic close my heart- Love. We have suddenly changed the significance of Love and compared it to diamonds and defined it on currencies. What more are you seeking for if its not love in its raw nature we kind of like love marinated.

what am trying to say is that it is not wrong to envision your better half but it is wrong for you to be envisioning and/or seeking a greater half, as we all know that a better half is a suitable someone you have chosen to be with. Now in a case scenario where an individual gets into a relationship with someone because of their status or money this is when they have a greater half rather than a better half . Then it is in this case that we can distinguish between what's really suppose to be on the market because its definitely not love. It is sex ,free time ,boredomness ,beauty that should be sold.

The decision of falling in love is like that of a mother that has given birth to a child she has to care for, love and cherish, although it is her responsibility but it is her decision to love the child. People think by loving someone you doing that person a favour but its actually you doing yourself a great favour, the same way you look at yourself in the mirror and reciprocate that it is the same with love. you see your love through the love you giving. There are so many points to give but my point is you will never understand love until you understand that love is bigger than your needs and at the same time it covers all your needs. Stop giving out money to girls thinking it is for love unless you engaging into prostitution , the minute you do that you've lost the significance of love.

When He said I love you but... that's when I knew that the dog has bucked on the wrong visitor, simply because I was the visitor in the house full of ungratefulness. The fact that I thought gifts, even good acts could save my relationship was just a crazy idea because no amount of money can make a person to love you back. Love is a feeling but that feeling is the one that drives our good acts towards people but when your love is not received there's completely nothing you can do. Because of my understanding of love I knew when he said ''but'' that I was done

In a world where love is only another term for affection, in most cases it is especially related to two people. Well in my quest of researching what true love is I also found that love is a treasure that is hidden around us, love is just under our nose!. its hard for our generation to love because just like how they say charity begins at home its the same with love, if you don't teach yourself to love the people around you its going to be difficult for you to enter any intimate relationship simply because you are building on a field with no foundation of Love. Start building your Love foundation right now, Love people with no expectation of a reward meaning you should love unconditionally regardless of differences.

And above all it is not ''I love you'' if it is followed by a but.