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Some Things to Know About Having a Long Distance Relationship

By Charlotte WaughPublished 6 years ago 3 min read
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My boyfriend and I have been together for two and half years now. We have the same sense of humour, work well together and both have similar ideas for the future. For me, he is perfect. It has, however, not been all plain sailing. The main problem in our relationship is that there are about one hundred and fifty-three miles between us. Long distance can cause a strain on our relationship. There is not being able to see my boyfriend as much as I would like, as well as the time and money that goes into traveling. But when you are really committed to each other, there are things that make it all worthwhile.

Being in a long-distance relationship can be a continuous struggle. As someone who loves hugs and holding hands and being really close to my other half, it is difficult when the only person you want to cuddle is not there. This lack of comfort can lead to me feeling alone and miserable because I can’t see him for a long time. However, when I need him, he will always answer the phone and comfort me when things are hard. I love knowing that even though he is far away, he will still be there for me. It helps me feel like he isn't so far away.

The most annoying thing about the long distance is how expensive it is to see each other; depending on when we book a return train, it can cost between £40 and £60 to travel. This further limits the amount of time we can spend together. Also, we try to go for the cheapest tickets we can which can lead to us only seeing each other for a few days. However, when we are together, it is the most amazing time. It feels like we are still a new couple, who only want to spend time with each other by going on dates and cuddling on the sofa. The time we do spend together is so amazing that it's worth the wait to see him again.

There is one aspect of long-distance dating that is always a problem. When important dates such as Christmas, birthdays, and other holidays come around, it is sometimes not possible to spend them together. Last year, I was not able to be with him on his birthday. I had to wait until our next planned visit which was closer to Christmas (his birthday is in September). Although it was not a significant birthday, it was still hard not to see him and say happy birthday to him in person. Compared with this though, we were able to spend an amazing Christmas together. When booking tickets, we must decide when is the best time to see each other. If it is not worth the money to see each other then it is better to save the money for a better time.

Long distance is a commitment in itself as well as to the person you are dating. If you are not willing to put in the time to see them, the money to travel, and the long hours sitting wishing they were closer, it is not worth dating at all. Long distance is good at showing you whether you love the person or if you are just looking for a fling. The hours put in waiting to see them are well worth the love and appreciation you share when you are together. You never love someone as much as when you see them again after a time away. If you can’t commit, it isn’t going to work.

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