Life if only as first

Nalan xingde said: life if only as first.

When I first read this sentence, I was reading a book when my friend Wu Wei in Beijing wrote me a letter with such a personalized signature at the end. At first, I didn't know what the rhyme meant, so I even bothered him to explain it to me. Times ran, now, in the heart of the taste of which had a profound understanding, so they sigh poetry is far less than this sentence itself brought meaningful.

If life is only as first, I think this must be a lot of people have had the idea.

Things start from a blank cognition, starting from a leaf forest, begin from a drop of water droplets at sea, start with an eye drunk love, since a petal intoxicated with gorgeous...... yes, first time, everything is so fresh and fun, with we know all the most simple and primitive appearance, and of love, The first feeling and shy, the first kiss when the ignorant and ignorant, the heart is agitated with uneasy hazy and rabbit-like reverie.

With an increasing incidence of life experience, experience the less interesting, we need to keep looking for something new to guide them to find an indicator of forward, need frequent to adjust yourself, everyone in the new document, constantly in the new, modify, and delete in my heart put a empty recycle bin, constantly in the process to find a new starting point.

Love also is such, originally you too for the ordinary ordinary woman, there is no any new ideas, the man had been around you for that ugly little move feeling, but, over time and the penetration of love, maybe he (she) has been gradually infiltrating in your life, he (she) will always told you to dress well, he (she) would have told you not to drink; When something negative comes up around you, he or she will tell you that the only way to get fat is to put down your baggage and pack light. When faced with a difficult choice, he or she will say take a step back and the sky will be clear. His (her) love and thoughtfulness will give you confidence. Your mind starts to be filled with such a person all the time that you can't help thinking and thinking about him or her.

Bi Shumin, a famous writer, said in an article that every woman can find thousands of husbands, and every man can also find thousands of wives. Come to think of it, it is. If, at the same time and in the same place, you meet for the first time, you change for another woman, or he for another man; Or at a different time and a different place, he meets another woman, you meet another man; In either case, the story of life must be rewritten; After all, your meeting is just one of a million permutations. Clearly this is not alarmist. So know that you meet with him (her) is how lucky, you have to be grateful for the infinite providence. She gives you the once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to meet him or her in the right place at the right time, so that you can be inseparable in a never-ending relationship that has been carefully cultivated for you.

The earth is round, the place is at the end of each seemingly starting point, life, love, etc, we not only want to charge, need more discharge at any time (here is disorderly discharge the eye "), can only be a breakthrough, discharge can make up the shortfall, at any time to remove the obstacles, constantly updated energy, this is also a form of progress, It's a virtuous cycle.

You may complain that your partner is a jerk because he always forgets to bring you flowers on Valentine's Day, doesn't serve you wine on your birthday, or even refuses to give you the simplest sweet words. So what does it matter? Love can be expressed in a thousand ways, but you have to believe that he doesn't care to do it, that he's not stingy with his time and money, but that he's obsessed with content over form. You can at least have a thousand reasons to love him: a piece of cake to help each other in poverty, a mutual look in the eyes in trouble, a deep embrace he gave you in your predicament, a warm message he gave you during his working hours... Your happiness is unique and priceless, so don't simply dismiss it as meaningless. Your happiness is only known to yourself, it is not synchronized with wealth, status and reputation, it does not need others to prove it!

There are those who forecast typhoons, locusts and earthquakes. But no one to predict love. Love, like everything else in the world, has its signs. You do not always expect a magnificent and spectacular love, it is probably just quietly coming, just like one ordinary day, you look back out of the window, he may be smiling at you!

Happiness is often hazy, always very moderate to spray nectar to us, so, we hold love in hand, most of it is warm.

If life is only such as first see, then first see hope and idealization will be in 2 see 3 see in constant change and enrichment, looking at your far back in the rain, in fact, very want you to say to you: if life is only such as first see, I would like to see again, three see!