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Kiss Your Ex goodbye

Stop holding on to whats not meant

By Frannie FriendsPublished 3 years ago 2 min read
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Kiss Your Ex goodbye
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Love Yourself First and Everything Else will Fall In Place is my motto. A lot of people want to talk about how to get your ex back. What you need to do to get your ex back.

Why?

Do you lack that much confidence? Are you so hard up to get your ex back that you can't move on?

Sometimes things happen for a reason.Sometimes your ex becomes your ex because they weren't meant to be anything more than that. Wasting your time trying to get your ex back is stupid, childish and absurd.

The funny thing is, if your ex wanted you they would find you. So now you just look like a creeper.

What happens when you actually take time out to love yourself? That is the question you should be asking because magic happens when you decide to travel the roads of self love and self care. When you decide to clear your mind of the bullshit, and focus on making yourself happy, you begin to see the world in a different light.

Things begin to come to you. Things begin to happen for you. And that ex eventually becomes unimportant.

I need you guys to understand the importance of letting the past go. The importance of moving on from that last relationship that did nothing but hinder you.

You thought it was love. You thought it was meant to be but found out that the person was only there was a season and or a reason.

Getting your ex back is one of the dumbest extra curriculum activities you could ever spend your time on.

So... How do you Focus your attention on something else?

You love yourself first and eventually everything else will fall into place.

Taking time to pour into yourself will allow you to eventually forget about your ex. Giving yourself time to actually heal from whatever pain was put upon you will allow you to forget about your ex.

Right now, your stuck on your ex. And it's keeping you stagnant. You can't move forward with your life because you can't move past them.

Begin recreating new memories so that you can stop reliving the old ones you created with your ex. Sitting around reminiscing is keeping you from being able to love yourself.

Another thing that means you are finally loving yourself is the ability to keep your time to yourself. No more meeting up with your ex or accepting phone calls.

The best thing you can do for yourself is give the time you used to give them to yourself. That is the best thing you can do when it comes to loving yourself.

Leave your ex where they are, and focus on your own capabilities. Understand that they don't MISS YOU. If they did then they would be apart of your life. If they wanted you then you wouldn't be trying to figure out how to get them back.

Work on your confidence and know that you are worth more than the left overs your ex has to give you.

The belief that you are worth more than your ex will allow you to move forward in your life. It will make you available to meeting new people, and growing a life that was better than the one you had with your ex.

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