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It's ok :)

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By Akshar GoyalPublished 3 years ago 3 min read
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It's ok :)
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It's okay.

  • It's okay to feel you don't know what you are doing right now even if you are 22 or something. Our life was never meant to be all about success or progress or anything as such but just to enjoy life.
  • It' okay...to feel you don't belong here. It only means you have an extraordinary mind; you do not like to think with the style of common.
  • It's okay if you feel like not doing the best. In the end or somewhere in later period of your life, you will realize that just being able to sustain your happiness is enough to feel successful in your life.
  • It's okay to think a lonely life is fine. Fate may have chosen for you to have temporary or non-meaningful relations in your life and sometimes, we can not help with it but just live with it.
  • It's okay. It's just okay to find comfort in not being surrounded by too many people or just people itself. Human lives now exist around progress and not connecting with their inherent nature. There is a reason why we don't feel any social anxiety or urge to impress when we are around animals, and maybe even children. We just feel ourselves around them; just our true, non-stressed, jolly ourselves. Hence, it's okay.
  • It's ok to take a break from reading this article ;)
  • It's okay if you find yourself feeling helpless. You must remember that there are either solutions to your problems (some maybe bitter) or your situation is not a permanent one (though it can take a long time to get out of it). Hence, it's alright to feel helpless. It's another way of knowing that help is coming from another source other than yourself.
  • It's okay to be scared of being happy. We may just never know how long it will last and we are just afraid of losing it; we are afraid that we may never get that time back, that moment back. For some of us, we may get a chance to feel happy again after a long time. Hence, it's okay to feel afraid of being happy.
  • It's okay to feel tensed before anything you are going to do. You just don't want to ruin it; you just don't want to make things difficult for others or just yourselves. You just want the very best for yourselves and everyone :)
  • It's okay to get away from family and friends for good. We have differences. We have similarities. What outweighs the other decides whether we want to preserve a relationship or not. Family and friends may help us grow, but in the end, we must remember we all are individuals and we decide how we want to shape our future. Hence, it's okay to not feel guilt when cutting away a relation which the society asks us to respect.
  • It's okay to get tired of life. Yes, life is always about learning and progressing. But in the end, emotional peace is what we cherish the most. When we think of peace, we mean life with no hassle enough to break us down. Hassle could be enemies, some difficulties, achieving through failing multiple times and such. These hassles can make life tiring especially when there is minimum to no break. Hence, it's fine if we feel tired.
  • It's okay to just say "I'm fine" to people instead of exploding your anxieties onto them. Not all have time to sit and listen to us patiently and understand us well. Some may listen, but just to feel better about themselves and/or even gossip. Some may get tired of being a vent dump and leave the friendship. Hence, it's okay to say "I'm fine/alright."
  • It's okay to have problems and not do much about them. Sometimes, that's what helps us feel we are living a life. Hence, it's alright to live a non-monotonous life. Hence, it's okay to not worry much about them.

Hence, it's okay.

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About the Creator

Akshar Goyal

- Novice Programmer

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- BD: 10/Nov/1998

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