Is Tinder Ruining Dating For Men?

In the post internet age, it‘s getting harder and harder for men to find a themselves a good woman anymore. With apps like Bumble and TInder flooded with billions of people daily swiping left or right and now easier than ever for both men and women to have an affair by just the tap of a DM on Instagram,modern apps are creating dangerous new breeeding grounds unlike anything seen before. The age Of Tinder has caused a shift where everything is based on looks rather than personailty and game rather than getting to know an individual.

Tinder is An App For Females who want to hook up:

It’s also manifested, angry bitter men whose participation on this app had been prone to frustratedly being unnoticed or oftentimes ignored by the females plastered throughout the app. It’s been only a matter of time, when men will decide not to use tinder anymore and instead, focus on their own definition of happiness without a woman. And that will be a very sad day for shareholders and staff of tinder, however all good things like these must come to an end at some point. After all, for the last four years, studies have been conducted, the tender favors their female base much more than males while giving men reasons to use micro transactions.

Men MUST PAY to enjoy the full Tinder Experience Like their Female counterparts Get To Do...For Free ...well, sorta:

There’s nothing wrong necessarily with having a hook up app since that is what everyone else is doing these days. But there is a fine line between fair and balanced and completely disadvantaged. That’s where some men are finding themselves with apps like Tinder, where there’s no real reciprocity.when you really look deep into how apps like these work, it’s all about the algorithm and it’s extremely rigged! For men, 80% of the time their profiles will never be seen by the 20% of the women. That puts them at a high disadvantage of getting matched unless he pays up for profile views (more on that later)and even then for 20$, he’s not even receiving half of what his female counterparts get flooded with daily.

There’s a premium version of this dating app that gives you unlimited swipes and both men and women could benefit from their membership. Mostly, men are the ones who end up paying for this feature while a majority of the women get thousands of swipes daily.Realistically, I don’t think women want to swipe unlimitedly.it’s not needed when every day she logs on to the app, they’re flooded with thousands of messages from days and days ago. Simply put, Tinder was designed for women to hook up with men not the other way around. So remember: She’s not your booty call, you’re hers...

Tinder Could One Day Be Accountable For LongWolfs violence of women & Domestic Terrorist Events in extreme cases.

Incel: Involuntarily celibate

The raise of the incel subgroups on platforms like Reddit are rapidly growing due to algorithm manipulation used on apps like Tinder and Bumble. The Incel crowd are a group of people who feel that they’re too unattractive to date high-quality woman. Their self-esteem issues and lack of confidence enables them to self-consciously believe that they will forever be alone and denied a romantic life or lifetime of celibacy. These guys often associate fictional characters as real world props to yield examples of the ever changing landscape like Chad, the football jock that obtains all of the “desirable girls” and always gets first play with the chicks that nice guys often date later in life. Or Stacy, the preppy girl who can easily get laid because of high demand from of alpha- males.

In 2014, Elliot Rogers created a YouTube video of his chilling manifesto over his lack of romantic escapades that didn’t happen in college, leading him to believe that he was the most undesirable man in the world.Elliot became so outraged over the rejection he would receive on college campus from various women that he decided to go on a shooting spree killing and injuring several people in the process. Some in the Incel community ignorantly consider Elliot Rogers to be a hero or legend and prime example to what the ultimate ranking Intel ought to be. Although most Intels don’t wish to harm anyone or turn into a domestic terrorist, several of them unfortunately have severe toxic ideas of women which makes them appear misogynis, dangerous, sexiest and creepy to individuals outside of that community. Unfortunately, with the way Tinder is rigged against men’s dating choices, it could unintentionally cause more long wolf mass shootings in the future from these internet communities who choose to utilize Tinder’s platform. Let’s hope it ever gets out of hand one day or that government entities put sanctions on Tinder for partial accountability of mass female violence hysteria. Only Tinder has the real resolve to this issue.

Again, If you’re a Man Using Tinder,PAY UP! Could cause more trouble...

The Artifical Intelligence algorithm systems set into place via Tinder, Bumble and Other Social media apps are already causing a wide divided against the sexes and could oneday affect the dating scene in seriously alarming ways which might result in domestic terrorism in Western Countries like The United States.

Tinder might be (ignorantly unbeknownst to them and their shareholder), adding fuel to the fire in long wolf communities with the way their platform is set up.However from a business perspective,their app was design for profitability and someone unfortunately needs to take the fall to foot the bill.

You see, Tinder and their shareholders want to make money in order to return a profit, sacrifices and unfair algorithm manipulation must be set in place. If you’re a male and sign up for tinder, your profile is intentionally not shown to millions of women in your area. That’s because Tinder relies on you to pay for micro transactions in order to turn a profit. If you want to be seen more as a man, you must pay money to get your profile boost which will increase the likelihood of people matching up with you. Whereas the opposite is true for the female user on this app.The average female will be swiped right 80% of the time and will have 60-160 messages from different guys so Tinder will always favor their female base much more which creates an unfair advantage of one gender over the other. In other words,Males pay for validation and to talk and get notice while women get it for free.

The Downside Of Tinder

Unfortunately, the downside to this algorithm AI technology with apps like Tinder and Bumble could (in super extreme cases) also create long wolf active shooter situations that would be detrimentally dangerous towards women. It could also cause ( in very minimum cases) a decline in men wanting to date women while looking for alternatives for their resolve. For example,some men might get frustrated over the unfair dating scene in their home town due to the amount of options available for women and lack of variety for men and just settle for a foreign mail order bride, or simply date overseas in countries where there’s more woman than men and more options for guys.

It causes men and women to be more unfaithful

It’s becoming more unbarring and difficult for men in the United States and other English-speaking Anglo countries to find love online and on apps. But this is nothing new and has been increasing before the COVID-19 era. Millions of frustrated men are swiping left and right each and every day only to not be seen and are finessed to pay a premium incentive from Tinder to “boost“your profile to be seen and liked. But for those already in relationships, it’s easier than ever to have an emotioal or physical affair thanks to Instagram,especially if your girlfriend or wife is hot and show cases filtered pictures of herself on IG.

Now more than ever is it easier for guys to check out pics of women while their girls asleep and for women to reply to DM’s of thirsty man ready to have sex any given whim by spitting game at her or throwing validation of compliments via Dm’s. In the most extreme cases, the woman could arrange a meet up with the guy who so subtly creeped on her and then get continuous sex behind her man’s back. This scenario especially happens if her boyfriend gives her too much attention, validation and emotional codependency. Once your girl has peaked validation from you, she’ll get bored, go on Tinder, talk to a few guys after they DM her and have oral and vaginal sex with them until she’s a chronic cheater. The same could happen with a guy too. Social media and dating apps can cause infedilty to be more commonplace and easier than it has ever been in recent decades.

Hookup culture is more prominent than saving oneself for marriage

With the rise of social media and dating apps like tinder, the hook up culture has became a default stable for the dating scene in the west. Gone are the days where one would save their souls for marriage just to engage sexually. Here are the days where swiping right might get you lucky in bed within a few hours of getting to know the individual. Of course, because Tinder is more Gynocentric and geared towards the women, the male becomes the bootycall while woman becomes the booty caller.Also, TikTok has became a hub where women can express their sexuality easier while getting massive validation in the process. Technology and smart phones are the primary reason for the microwave culture we are surrounded by right now. Generation Z doesn’t want to wait until they’re legally bonded in order to sleep with each other. Bumble and tinder are designed for hooking up quickly and efficientl within hours of DMing your booty call. After you’re done hooking up with that individual, you can then go on tinder again and swipe for your next booty call until you are completely exhausted from your local area, which tinder gives you the option to swipe globally.

So Now What?

Due to covid 19, dating using apps or desktop computer is starting to make less and less sense. As a man myself, I’m consistantly struggling with the ever-changing dating scene in my country. Right now, in The United States, we have reached a new era of relationship scouting that I like to call The Relationship Monarcy. A system of romance catered specifically for the modern female in mind. Women from Generation Z from Western countries are benefiting from the relationship monarcy due to feminism and more bureaucratic family court laws and women’s rights. The age of the 50‘s where dating wasn’t hard for a guy are officially over. In Turn, the modern dating scene for woman will tilt towards her liking and preferences, while you might have to settle for whatever or whoever wants you. However if the dating scene isn’t working well for you because of the technological age that’s consumed it, here are some things you could do instead.

Focus On Yourself:

If the dating thing isn’t working out for you, why not just focus on what makes you happy? Write affirmations that compliment yourself each and everyday. Try it for 30 days to change and rewire your perception of yourself.

Travel More:

Get into the habit of traveling more. This is a good way to get out of your home town and explore what else is out there, especially when its overseas. You’ll be surprised just how much more happier you’ll be in a new location. And you might just find the love of your life outside of your country.

Go To Therapy:

A good session with a therapist will help you resolve some issues that may of not of known you had and help you cope with any new existing problem.

Discover Hobbies:

What do you enjoy doing? Video gaming, fresbie, Tennis, Biking, Drawing? Pick up a hobbie and get emersed in it. This will help you from driffting your mind on banging chicks or forming relationships with someone. Also consider the idea that once you’re in a relationshi how you might put more energy into your relationship than hobbies.

Excerise :

Take a hike, or a walk, get into a sport and master it. Whatever you do, get moving, don’t be complacent.

Get Goals:

Remember guys : Goals before Hoes! Set several small goals for yourself then make them happen.

Life doesn’t have to be gloomy just because of the new Relationship moncary and the A.I dictating who you could date or sleep with. Your life can still have so much meeting without a romantic relationship. And once you reached your goals, you might just bump into someone who you can share your life with later on. Have hope.