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Instigation consequences suffer and ruin the relations with rapid toxic reactions

Provoking to anyone, specially the person who is vital in life, sometimes become the reason of the rapid reactions from that person that prove toxic for the whole life.

By Wajiha KhanPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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Instigation means to poke someone to that extinct that the person who is having a full of calm nature and behavior lose the mind and temper. This poking makes a person get frustrated and this situation forces the person to start to react to this annoying situation. Then the resulted frustration when appears is unexpected from that person. This is all because of the constant poking. This instigation may harm not only the personality but also the relation as well. Toxic reactions always come and gradually make toxic relations as well. These toxic circumstances injure the person from the inner who is being suffering. The person who is suffering all this becomes hurtful deeply. The doubt about trust and affection has been built about the close relation.

The instigating atmosphere affects the person's mentality and the person starts to take that unbelievable steps that only lead to the wrong path and cause regression at the end. The person enjoys the selfish taste at that time but when some other’s tolerance level excels he or she reacts instantly or sometimes chose the right time to learn the person in form of toxic ways.

Poking is usually done on the rivals and the person you mostly don't like. Poking itself is a very toxic deed, and it does not suit even with a very toxic personality. A person should not adopt this habit. This habit not only spoils the person's tolerance level and mind but also affects the inner personality of that person who practices this habit. The instigation consequences sometimes are hard to that extinct that totally uncontrollable to handle and encourage the fetal steps to take. These fetal steps may make life disastrous not only for that person who is suffering but also for him or her also who creates this toxic scenario.

Sporadically, the poking is not intentional, so when you are practicing this toxic behavior to that person who is very precious to you in life most probably it does not only suffer others but you as well. When the other person constantly tolerates this behavior. The person gets frustrated from the close relationships because that person does not listen to the logic and reasons intentionally and forces the person to adopt the poking attitude. This frustration becomes the encouragement to react toxically, and the result also shows the most harmful.

Never try to poke, constantly poking makes the sweetest person in the world to bitter personality for you, whether the person is your closest person or unknown as well. The famous law can be applied, every action reacts. So, when we keep poking someone constantly, then the other person also adopts this habit and that person deals with you with your style and also replies to you with the same poking strategy. This same reaction strategy when suffering on itself then the person who has poking habit realize the real taste.

Instigating sometimes takes in a positive site and the intention also like if the person who is very hopeless and need little encourage doing something in life then the person may apply this instigating approach. Instigation does not always practice hurting and giving mental torture to someone.

Every aspect has positive as well as negative sides. When poking is doing to learn and motivate the person to do some constructive acts that help in his life to get better and make his way better we call it constructive instigation. On the other hand when instigation takes the taste of poking that definitely gives the negative vibe due to toxic essence and causes discomfort for the people and let down others then we call it demotivating instigation.

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