If one day, the person on the pillow does not love you anymore

Getting along with one person, seeing the world and growing old together is the dream of almost everyone.

But everything in this world is changing, especially feelings, will not give you the corresponding feelings because of your sincerity, your dedication, your persistence.

The former loving partner, today may be better than a stranger on the roadside, cold eyes, indifference, no words.

The heartache, hard, do not know where the feelings go.

After all, there are many years of emotional ties, there may also be a common child, it is not easy to enter, it is difficult to retreat.

So he does not love you anymore, what to do?

Most people get caught up in it, unable to live well, and finally a failure.

In fact, he doesn't love you anymore, even if you really can not separate, do two things, life will not be bad.

1, see through the feelings, do not expect

Often receive a lot of letters, he does not love me, now very cold to me, before coming home from work, with me and my children, and now the overall do not know the human figure, and do not tell you where to go.

If you ask him, he is impatient, what will it take to make him love me again.

Having the love of a husband is what every woman wants, and a marriage does need to be run, but it all needs to come back to you.

If you want to change him, for someone who doesn't love you, everything about you he now hates.

Instead of obsessing about transforming him, take back your energy and think about how to live your life well.

When you look down and see through, there will be a glimmer of hope instead.

The reason is that love is such that when you love you can't help but give you all the best things in the world, when you don't love you, you can't help but hurt you to the bone.

The idea of a thing sometimes really in a flash, you must accept your pillow man does not love you, no you in the heart, disappointed to save enough, all the love has been exhausted, not expecting, and no longer pleasing, a long life clear you stay true to yourself, do what you want to do.

You can't stop him from loving you anymore, just like you can't stop summer from passing and autumn from coming.

Once his eyes only you, you were warm thought really is a lifetime; now his eyes are all other, no longer half your shadow, but you have to bear the change after the rightful and blame.

When you see through the feelings, know what it's like to die and sleep through the night, from then on no longer hope for love, no longer force anyone to go on with you.

If everything has been irrevocable, let yourself go, just let go of him and let go of yourself.

Only look light, you will find the original lost those happy, to do back to the original self.

2, guarding their property, to protect their own interests

Some people will feel snobbish to talk about money, but when the other party does not love you, it is likely to transfer your common money away, leaving you with nothing, it is too late

We have no intention of coveting each other's money, but it is important that two people learn to guard their common property.

After all, that may be the second half of your life and your child's security, expect him to heart you basically impossible.

Remember "My First Half Life" Chen Junsheng? He tried to get Luo Zijun and Ping'er to go out while he took Ling Ling and her son to live in a big house.

Ridiculous? His own son wants to kick out and rent a house while someone else's son wants to live in it, at which point he no longer has you or your child in his heart.

If you don't find a way to fight for it, it's you and your child who will have a hard time. Adults aggravate a little no harm, but can not disregard the children.

When women get married they think their lover is a good person, a good person means that even if they don't love each other, this person will not calculate themselves, can't do such things as transferring property or denigrating themselves.

But the truth is, the other party does not love anymore, will be unforgiving.

Even to the new love, to someone else's children, will not take into account the years of husband and wife, father and son love.

So when it comes to this time, learn to be sensible, not emotional.

True love should be I had stepped on the moon, only because you are in the mountains, so that the love has meaning and value.

For those who do not have feelings and do not have you in their eyes, they should recognize the reality.

At any time, do not deceive yourself, and do not excuse each other, to his soft-hearted suffering is you.

The matter of feelings, there is never reason to say.

Love you, no matter how you will feel you are very good, do not love you, no matter how well you do, he always do not see you.

So, your love to give people who understand you, for people who do not love you, break off the idea before it is too late.