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I Broke Up With Him and Now Regret It (I Broke Up With Him and He Didn't Fight For Me)

Are you thinking, I broke up with him and now regret it? If so, you may be experiencing pain over losing him. You had no idea, at the time, that you'd come to miss him so much. You felt the breakup was the right thing to do. If you're in a situation where you're saying I broke up with him and he didn't fight for me, then this might be the most important thing you've ever read.

By Ivy JadePublished about a year ago 6 min read
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On a daily basis, thousands are presently in deep regret having reached the end of their relationship. And many of these are the people who instigated the breakup. Probably, you are one of them?

Anytime a passionate and close connection is broken, it's painful. But the next thing you now, you suddenly realize you're back knocking at his door asking for forgiveness. Or is it something you have in mind right now?

And as your mind see into the future yearning for the good old days and hoping to rekindle a lost romance, being aware, you're cultivating an interest in giving a tumultuous relationship another chance. Once you learned some simple steps, no power on earth can resist you to salvage your relationship.

As a guy, here's my point of view, before you make the wrong moves to win your boyfriend back, follow these simple advice, and as you do, be aware of what you're about to feel, that this was meant to be a self-reincarnation experience to win him back.

A bold but not overrated statement from me; "There's always a second chance."

Take small steps

Here is where it all starts. Keep in mind, patience is a virtue quality that you are borne with. As you start to feel yourself being drawn to him, start things off by being his friend again with a sweet smile on your face, willingly, say hello whenever you stumble upon him.

Can you remember the time when you befriend him, or other people? Was it like there so much openness that you can talk about almost anything?

That is the kind of connection you would want to achieve at this point, and you can learn to bring it back.

As you may have been off the hook for quite sometime, and as you are considering doing this, uncomfortably wondering if there's any way you can initiate a contact and to what comes next, you can in today's online driven world, send him an e-mail or post a message on his Facebook wall. If you have no clues of what to say, simply just join the conversation he's having with others. Simply agree with him so there you are, rebuilding rapport.

Communication at this early point should be pivoted at being 'friends again'. What is the probable respond you could expect from him? A returned 'Hello' is a great sign. In fact, any reply from him is a great indication he's opening up.

Respect yourself, be confidence

A research conducted on what men think is sexy in a woman proves, showing respect for yourself signals a high confidence which is something that most men find attractive.

While you remember the early days of your courtship, let yourself go, this time you can learn to let intuitive guide you to win his attention.

For instance, a mild to high tone of voice when you laugh or talk to others while he's around surely make his head turned to you. In fact, most guys in the room will turned their heads as well. That's your attractiveness at play.

Flirt him

As you surrender to those feelings, here a short but true story of a friend, whom she managed to win her boyfriend back because she chooses to do this, but wasn't so sure intuitively at first, got her advice from a reliable resource.

When Susan was at a bar with her girlfriends, she remembered seeing Marc( her ex ), sitting across the room, she pulled out her best of 'attractiveness' and 'confidence' that she had learned, approached him to have small talk. Then she stopped the sweet conversation and went back to her girlfriends, giving him a side-long glance just enough so to make him notice her. Noticed he did indeed. The day after, Marc called, and said, I'm looking forward to talk to you again." It was a moment of sheer joy, she recalls.

They both has got back together since then.

You can decide not to feel doing the same, probably because maybe you feel it's just not you, but anyway this approach can easily be learn if you would want to. At the bottom of this article I've provided the link to automatically take you there and learn other variations. Perhaps you would want to check it out, because it's pretty simple and easy.

Remember those early days of courtship? It's a lot like that, if you've done it before. Perhaps, you used different approach back then. So you are free to do as to what feels good to you back then.

There are many ways you can reignite his interest in you as you will be learning by following a reliable resource such as T. Dub Jackson.

Give compliments

A few honest compliments will do you better making him feel good having you around.

By being his friend, and gradually moving into by showing him a better and desirable you, as you give yourself to that warm rush again, you'll be witnessing right under your nose, you are easily leading him to open up again.

Generally, for you who have been reading this, and come to understand the process, the thought arises as how to take it to next level, from here, being just friends, to certainly land you in the warmth of his arms again. Although the above would be correct, as you will soon open your heart to, it is possible to follow a reliable instruction and advice, because right now, there will always be a second chance.

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