I Broke Up With Him And All He Said Was Ok (Should I Text Him After I Broke Up With Him)

Have you just split up with your ex and then suddenly realized that you've made a terrible mistake? You are still deeply in love with your ex and need your ex in order to survive day to day. You may still be in love with your ex, but how do you know if your ex still feels the same way about you? Sometimes when we break up, we say a lot of things that we don't really mean. Your ex may have told you you're a loser and that he or she doesn't want to see you again; this may just be an overreaction. There is a slim chance that your ex actually still loves you.

Yes, your ex may still have feelings for you and may respond positively to your attempts to get back together Even if your ex doesn't immediately agree to restart the relationship, it's a good idea to keep the friendship. Ask yourself whether getting back with your ex is really going to workout in the same way that you imagine. Sometimes when couples reunite, they find that a lot of the feelings they previously felt have gone. A helpful exercise that may help you to decide on the right course of action is to write down all of the reasons why you should still be together, and also a list of why it's better to finish the relationship now. This will give you time to get a grasp of the whole situation, instead of just jumping into things.

At this moment you will probably be feeling incredible depressed and lonely. Don't let this force you into making hasty choices. These intense feelings will be contributing to your desperation, but contacting your ex immediately would be a mistake. So why did you break up in the first place? Was it because you or your ex cheated? Or was it a build up of many different things that drove you to this point? Break down the list to a few particular problems that you can work on; after going through these issues, you may even persuade yourself that it's better to stay separated rather then to get back together.

So you've finished your list of pros and cons and spent ample time going over the nuts and bolts of the relationship. You've realized that you truly love your ex and want to get together. After calling your ex, he or she agrees to get back with you. A wide smile spreads across your elated face. Now that the easy part is over, you begin the difficult task of staying together and making it work. Remember to keep the problems that you wrote down and work on them, your boyfriend or girlfriend will also be expected to give an equal amount of effort to the relationship for it to work.

A lot of couples get back together just for the sake of it; they aren't used to being alone and are comfortable with their partners being in their lives. In this case, the success rate is quite low and they may have a short-lived period of happiness before the old issues pop up again. Keep the communication open between you two so you know when the other person is not happy and can change accordingly.

Text Your Ex Back - Good and Bad Examples of How I Feel Texts

There are many different kinds of text messages you can use to text your ex back after a breakup. These include things like:

• Shot In The Dark Texts
• Random Compliment Texts
• Emotional Language And Positive Experience Texts
• Small Ask Texts
• Intimacy Booster Texts
• Jealousy Texts
• Appreciation Texts
• What I Miss Texts
• How I Feel Texts
• Curiosity Texts
• Sexual And Turn On Texts

And many more.

The best way to text your ex back is to use a combination of all of these. Each has a specific purpose. Each has a specific time in the relationship when it should be used.

Today I'd like to concentrate on what Michael Fiore refers to in his ebook, Text Your Ex Back, as "How I Feel" texts.

How I feel texts are exactly what they sound like. They are texts where you open your heart and tell your ex exactly how you feel about them.

How I feel texts should not be taken lightly. They are extremely easy to mess up and if you use them to focus on negative emotions or try to make your ex feel guilty, then you're going to ruin any chance you have of winning them back.

These types of texts should also come later on in the recovery process. These aren't the types of texts you want to send your ex immediately following a breakup. Instead, they should only be used after you've been back in touch with your ex and are building some rapport again. How I feel texts are a deeper level of communication your ex won't be able to handle right from the get go.

Let's take a look at a couple examples. You tell me which one is good and which one is bad in terms of giving you a shot to get your ex back.

Example 1: "You mean the absolute world to me. I don't think I can live without you. I miss you so much. I'm going to die if I don't get to see you again soon. Please let's just end this and get back together. I love you more than life itself."

Example 2: "It's funny, but I still smile sometimes when I think about you. Remembering what it felt like to hold your hand on our long walks and cuddle up next to you on the couch during "movie night". You always made me feel safe and I'm glad you were in my life. It makes me happy thinking about you."

Hopefully it's pretty clear that example 2 gives you the best shot of getting your ex back. Example 1, on the other hand, comes off as needy, desperate, and begging for a second chance which is how people commonly mess these types of texts up.

As you start to text your ex back and reach a point where "How I Feel" texts make sense, always remember to keep them positive, confident, and simple. Speak from your heart and don't be needy and these can create a powerful connection with your ex.

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