I Begged For My Ex Back Is It Too Late (Begging and Pleading With Ex After Breakup)

The band Def Leppard is always preaching to us that it's too late, too late for love but they've always been real negative. Ask yourself a few of these questions to truly find out if it's too late to get your ex back..

Step 1: Check Your Internal Clock: Only you will know if it's truly too late to get your ex back but this is a good thing. Your friends might tell you to move on after a week but you might know if you still love them 26 years later so look inside for the answer.

Step 2: Use Common Sense: The sad truth is that it's probably too late to get your ex back if they've moved on, married, had kids and started a family. If you really love them you'll give them space and if they return someday down the line so be it.

Step 3: Why Now? Obviously some time has passed so why do you feel like now's the time to reignite your passion flame? Have you made changes in life, did your ex move back closer or are you just lonely?

Step 4: Time Doesn't Heal All Wounds: Contrary to popular belief, when somebody has been hurt it scars them forever. Maybe the cause of your split is just too much to overcome and it truly could be too late to get your ex back. You've got to evaluate who wronged whom and you might have to ask around to get a perception of what their feelings are towards you.

Step 5: It Won't Be The Same: Things have changed but that's not necessarily a bad thing. You've got to realize that getting back together after a breakup is harder than hooking up in the first place because now the both of you have a lot more invested in the relationship.

Step 6: It Could Be Better: Perhaps the breakup and subsequent time apart helped both of you realize that life is better with the other's company. In this instance, time is your ally and certain gaps in the partnership are good things, not negative.

Step 7: Try: You'll never know if it truly is too late to get back with your ex until you face up and try. If they tell you to get lost, at least you'll know but the longer you wait, the farther they'll drift apart so take that courageous leap today...or next week.

How To Get Back With Your Ex - When Should You Make Your Move?

It's so easy just to rush back in and try to fix things right away after a break-up. Especially if it's one that came out of the blue and hit you upside the head, leaving you spinning, confused and hurt.

But right now, there is so much 'stuff,' so much emotion, hurt, pain, that anything you do to try and repair the relationship is futile.

Not only does the rush of emotion you are feeling cloud your better judgment (and wind up making you do things you'll definitely regret later on), it also kills of your chances by making you seem desperate... which in all truth, you probably are.

So, if you want to do things the right way, first you're going to need to have a little patience.

You need to let things settle down. Don't fight the separation.

Take some time to grieve the loss. Cry it out. Have a drink. Get all that stuff out of your system... but please don't call your ex while you're doing this.

How long should you wait?

At least 30 days is best. First of all, by that time you will have gotten some of that pain and desperate emotion out of your body. You'll also have given them time to miss you a bit. Because here's a secret: Even if they dumped you, they feel the loss and the loneliness too.

During those 30 days you need to cut out all contact with your ex. No calls, no letters, no texting, no nothing. No 'chance' meet-ups, and no inquiring how they are through mutual friends.

That's right, you'll be going cold turkey.

What do you do during that time then? Well like I mentioned above, you need a couple days to get the grief out of your system... then once you realize that being alone isn't going to kill you, you're left with a void in your life.

To fill that void, start dating other people. Yep, go out and have some fun. But be warned. There is a difference between dating and jumping right into another long-term relationship, which is NOT something you should do right now. Especially not if you want to get back with your ex.

A note: If you do bump into your ex, keep any interaction positive but short. Don't take the opportunity to show your desire to get back together, to make up or to argue. Short, happy, positive.

What if I do get back together before 30 days are up?

Let me give it to you straight. It is possible to 'get back together' with an ex within this period. But the chances of another relationship blow-up if you do. Or of it just becoming a 'hook-up' that one of you regrets in the morning is dangerously high.

If your goal is to be back together for good. Then wait the 30 days.

Changing your mindset

One of the reasons why you should wait is because you need that time to get out of your old mindset. The mindset I'm talking about of course is the one of needing.

That's one of the reasons for me telling you to date others as soon as possible. Because you'll realize that your ex is not the only fish in the sea. That you have choices. That, and it is the most powerful technique known to man to get your ex to feel irresistible attraction to you and instantly regret their decision.

Put simply. You have to get out of the mindset of: "I need to get back with (name here), my life is meaningless without them!"

To: "I am perfectly happy with my life as it is. Sure, I would prefer than me and (name here) got back together. But if it doesn't happen, I'll move on and live a full and rich life."

If I were to put you on a scale, with 1 being the first statement above, and 10 being the second. Where would you fall?

I'm guessing pretty low. Which is why you need that time apart. If you try to win them back with a mindset of a 1 or even a 5. You're not going to meet with much success. You really need to get to a 9 or 10.

And breaking all contact, and dating others is the fastest way to get there.

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